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Dealbreakers

What would be a dealbreakers or a series of dealbreakers for you if you were in a relationship?

For me:

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Violence

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Constant lying

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Adultery

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Racism and homophobia and general narrow-mindedness and ignorance

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Immaturity

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Misogyny

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Disrespectful, ill-mannered and having bad manners

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Sense of entitlement

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Pushover/doesn't stand up for me, himself or our relationship

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Arrogance/condescending nature

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No work ethic

(edited 11 years ago)
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abbyheat
8
Original post by Dee Leigh
What would be a dealbreakers or a series of delabreakers for you if you were in a relationship?

For me:

•

Violence

•

Adultery

•

Racism and homophobia and general narrow-mindedness

•

Immaturity

•

Disrespect

•

Sense of entitlement

•

Arrogance



All of the above plus bad manners, wanting children, poor work ethic and lack of desire to travel


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Dishonesty I think, then maybe disrespect (there's a few things that would come under here so I'll just say this).

You can probably work on most things or at least compromise. I know someone above said wanting children, I'm the opposite cos I want children (not yet though), I'm 23 and if I had a girlfriend who was 18-23 and didn't want children I wouldn't not date her cos of it. I might ask her again in a few years... I know loads of people who said they didn't want kids and are now proud parents.
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ct2k7
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Original post by abbyheat
All of the above plus bad manners, wanting children, poor work ethic and lack of desire to travel


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I think this is more of a personal one than a general deal breaker? I mean, I do want to have kids of my own at some point in life.
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No Man
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Original post by Dee Leigh
What would be a dealbreakers or a series of dealbreakers for you if you were in a relationship?

For me:

•

Violence

•

Constant lying

•

Adultery

•

Racism and homophobia and general narrow-mindedness and ignorance

•

Immaturity

•

Misogyny

•

Disrespect

•

Sense of entitlement

•

Arrogance

•

No work ethic


What would you define as immaturity?
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Miss O.C.D
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Original post by Dee Leigh
What would be a dealbreakers or a series of dealbreakers for you if you were in a relationship?

For me:

•

Violence

•

Constant lying

•

Adultery

•

Racism and homophobia and general narrow-mindedness and ignorance

•

Immaturity

•

Misogyny

•

Disrespect

•

Sense of entitlement

•

Arrogance

•

No work ethic




Original post by abbyheat
All of the above plus bad manners... lack of desire to travel


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I think that's all of them for me. I have a thing against pet names too - can't stand being called 'baby' but it wouldn't be a dealbreaker per se.
Smoking (anything regularly)
Not being able to hold an intelligent conversation
Lazy
Original post by No Man
What would you define as immaturity?


Not acting like an adult, acting like a spoilt brat, not listening, not knowing to.walk away from certain battles....
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Krish4791
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Original post by Dee Leigh
What would be a dealbreakers or a series of dealbreakers for you if you were in a relationship?

For me:

•

Violence

•

Constant lying

•

Adultery

•

Racism and homophobia and general narrow-mindedness and ignorance

•

Immaturity

•

Misogyny

•

Disrespect

•

Sense of entitlement

•

Pushover/doesn't stand up for me, himself or our relationship

•

Arrogance/condescending nature

•

No work ethic



Surely no man/woman is that terrible, are they? I mean, have you ever come across someone who possesses ALL these undesirable qualities?
Original post by Krish4791
Surely no man/woman is that terrible, are they? I mean, have you ever come across someone who possesses ALL these undesirable qualities?


Nope

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