Guys: how do you feel if you don't make a girl orgasm?

Anon as he's on here.

I've been sleeping with a guy for a few months and the sex is great, but I have never orgasmed with him(or with anyone apart from myself) due to a few things that have occurred in my past. He's never mentioned it, but he's always been super generous when it comes to things like oral and doing positions that maximise my pleasure. The last time we had sex he orgasmed then started pleasuring me again but I still didn't orgasm.

I'm just wondering how guys feel if they don't make a girl orgasm.

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Reply 1

S.R

I feel good because I orgasmed.

Reply 2

2ndClass

Dunno, you don't get that "Mission Accomplished" feeling when you feel all macho for taking care of business. Can be frustrating actually. You start questioning whether your technique is off or your package is bellow standard. It's an ego/confidence kill. Not to mention that watching a girl orgasm is probably the hottest thing ever.

(edited 11 years ago)

Reply 3

Sol1dShot

NEVER HAPPENS. :h:

Oh, wait. I mean ALWAYS HAPPENS :bawling:

Reply 4

Libertinedreamer

Original post by S.R

I feel good because I orgasmed.

Pretty much this ^^^

Reply 5

CJKay

When I was last getting some (a while ago now :frown:

) if you don't it sorta feels like you haven't sealed the deal in a "THIS IS NOT OVER!" way. :dontknow:

(edited 11 years ago)

Reply 6

Paul-Ings

As long as I've finished, the act is over.

Reply 7

Mad Vlad

I've never had this problem, but I'm not sexually selfish - my objective always was their pleasure first, me second.

Reply 8

Anonymous #2

My boyfriend used to feel very bad if I didn't orgasm every time we had sex. We were both each others' firsts though if that counts. I think it made him feel sort of inadequate. I told him it's ok and that I didn't need to orgasm each time to make him feel better and I think that it did, but he's much better at sex now so that's not a problem anymore.

Reply 9

Hooj

I don't mind, i'm selfish.

Reply 10

Genocidal

It shouldn't bother you. Most women find it difficult to orgasm exclusively from vaginal penetration. Most men don't last long enough for it to happen, which is normal. Of course, some women just never reach that point and it's actually their problem, as opposed to the male's.

It's nothing to be ashamed of really because even without the orgasm its not as if women are going to be like: "You make me sick." It's still enjoyable for them even if they don't orgasm. If this wasn't the case what the hell is the point of foreplay?

Reply 11

PoGo HoPz

If it ever happened (doubt it, tbh :smug:

), I imagine I'd feel something like this:

Reply 12

thecookiemonster

Original post by Paul-Ings

As long as I've finished, the act is over.

wow i'm sure girls love you!

Reply 13

amyshamblesxx

Original post by PoGo HoPz

If it ever happened (doubt it, tbh :smug:

)

Such a stud. :lol:

Reply 14

cambio wechsel

Original post by Mad Vlad

I've never had this problem, but I'm not sexually selfish - my objective always was their pleasure first, me second.

you have never not brought a woman to orgasm?

Reply 15

Mad Vlad

Original post by cambio wechsel

you have never not brought a woman to orgasm?

Yes I have.

Reply 16

HistoryRepeating

Any guy who thinks this has never happened to him is incredibly naiive or has been with some good fakers!

Reply 17

PoGo HoPz

Original post by amyshamblesxx

Such a stud. :lol:

You said it, baby. :smug:

Reply 18

Sagacious

You win some, you lose some.

Reply 19

cambio wechsel

Original post by Mad Vlad

Yes I have.

I feel our exchange was both of brief and unsatisfactory, and on my part a bit confusing too.

Still, that's usually the way of it for me. Fancy a cigarette?