I don't want to be gay

So you would wanna marry a woman but not have sex with her and sex with a man? Strange, not that I mind if you get me but I think I know what you mean.

Wait what? no I love sex with women too, I love sex with both men and women, I just don't like the idea of dating men... never really seen it as an option.

If I could take a pill to be normal I would.

I am bisexual and personally the idea of dating men is not my cup of tea but sex, sex with other men is very much the bees knees

Don't worry about being gay, nothing wrong with it in the slightest. Go out there and live your life without a care in the world for what others think

Dating men is weird you mean?

So I understand now why there are some married men who are still looking for discreet gay sex...

Same as this guy, I think most gays feel like this.

My advice would be actively try and meet other gays and you'll realise they're as normal as anyone else. A year ago I would have taken that pill, but now hell no. Being gay is awesome.

I am struggling to come to terms with myself. After successive bad relationships with girls I had little to no attraction to I don't think I can hide who I am anymore. Growing up I have been attracted to both guys and girls but probably started noticing guys more around the age of 14. I didn't think much of it until I was about 18 and I started noticing I liked more guys than girls. Now I am 21 and have thought I could be bi so a few weeks ago I was slightly tipsy and a guy came on to me. I thought why not? I have never felt more comfortable or more attractive than when I was with him. A big part of me has always suspected I could be gay and I hate it. I am disgusted with myself that I liked him so much. If I could take a pill to be normal I would. I don't know what to do with myself. I don't want to be gay. I am depressed and just don't know what to do.

I am struggling to come to terms with myself. After successive bad relationships with girls I had little to no attraction to I don't think I can hide who I am anymore. Growing up I have been attracted to both guys and girls but probably started noticing guys more around the age of 14. I didn't think much of it until I was about 18 and I started noticing I liked more guys than girls. Now I am 21 and have thought I could be bi so a few weeks ago I was slightly tipsy and a guy came on to me. I thought why not? I have never felt more comfortable or more attractive than when I was with him. A big part of me has always suspected I could be gay and I hate it. I am disgusted with myself that I liked him so much. If I could take a pill to be normal I would. I don't know what to do with myself. I don't want to be gay. I am depressed and just don't know what to do.

Sure... it isn't something I would do, I would have to really like the guy and I don't spend enough time with a single guy to get to know them that way. It is all about the anonymous ONS not the wine and dine I like with women

Yeah... nothing wrong with it.

Ignore the people saying oh your gay just embrace it because it won't change etc etc Just focus on the comments that give you options.

If you feel disgusted then focus all of your energy into not liking men or just be gree..erm Bi-sexual? I wouldn't wanna encourage you to go either way (fully straight/ gay) but you did say you are disgusted with your homo feelings so try suppressing them as it could be a phase. If they come back then...well it's pretty obvious.

How is suppressing those feelings a good thing? Why shouldn't they embrace their feelings? Maybe they are bisexual but that doen't mean they should just suppress their same-sex desires. If the person is disgusted by their same-sex attractions why wouldn't it be better to address that disgust than feed it?

OP wow really? If you like boys, you like boys! If you like girls also who gives a toss.
This is something that I find extremely aggravating, not everything has to come with a label, you don't need to go your whole life worrying about putting yourself in a box. Just do what makes you happy.

You address the disgust my removing it. One way is to suppress just incase it is in fact a phase. Let us not encourage the lad to get jiggy with men only to realize it really wasn't for him in the end because that is harder to live with.

He can't embrace something he detests, that would be stupid. I hate apple crumble, should i embrace it bearing in mind it makes me puke in the same way his feelings make him feel disgusted?

I hate being alive but I am not complaining all the time.