the guy is mad bro

This never ceases to be an embarrasingly common issue. I mean if all the complaining would change something then fine, but as if turning to TSR on such a continual basis will do anything...

I still haven't got an answer to my question-why not be like the rest of the world and go for girls who find you attractive?This is for the individual complaining about white girls supposedly not going for ethnic minorities.

If a girl turns you down, find another. If after years all girls turn you down who you find attractive you most likely are; aiming too high, physically unattractive (overweight, too skinny for example), personality wise somewhat flawed, all of the above.

I don't see a lot of chinese guys with white girls. Not sure if because white girls think they're generally ugly or?

Would you go out with a chinese guy and what are you views on them in terms of appearance and personality? Do you know any chinese guys? what are they like?

edit: not saying I like white females only just wanting to know what white girls think of us.

@CaalvinYau

I decided not to argue but simply be amused at his posts...sounds horrible but I swear at one point in the summer he had 2 or 3 threads about it in the span of 2 days!

I still haven't got an answer to my question-why not be like the rest of the world and go for girls who find you attractive?This is for the individual complaining about white girls supposedly not going for ethnic minorities.

I decided not to argue but simply be amused at his posts...sounds horrible but I swear at one point in the summer he had 2 or 3 threads about it in the span of 2 days!

Because the girls who I find attractive are white.

So I have been lying about liking white girls all this time and its to cover up my flaws. You should be a psychologist.

But seriously, you can tell me to improve myself and all that but dont ever tell me what type of girls I do or dont like.

I don't see a lot of chinese guys with white girls. Not sure if because white girls think they're generally ugly or?

Would you go out with a chinese guy and what are you views on them in terms of appearance and personality? Do you know any chinese guys? what are they like?

edit: not saying I like white females only just wanting to know what white girls think of us.

@CaalvinYau

I can tell you what I like-it is the truth! Don't like it just whine. But when you do I will also post so that people don't ridicule ethnic minorities as insecure or delusional about their own flaws.

Nope - absolute nonsense. If anything, I'd say from observation and experience that on the whole white girls, after liking white boys, would tend to like chinese guys more than say, black guys or indian guys or whatnot. The general look of chinese guys seems to satisfy the Western notion of beauty than say, a black guy for example.

What do you have to say about the sheer number of posts you have made concerning white girls?-17 pages for that matter! 17 PAGES! For me such vast amounts posted on the topic suggests a rather unhealty obsession...

The above bothers me because people will see them and think that other Indian/Chinese people are like this when the 99% are not. People do sterotype sometimes and I don't want that to be the case here. I don't want to feel, as would normal ethnic minority members, like we are being judged to have an obsession just because one person does. So by reading this hopefully I have achieved that a little.

So you know what type of girls I like better than I do?

Mate 80% of the time its other girls mentioning him and white girls when he is not there.

No-one is telling you what girls you like. Like whoever you like. I do. I'm the one laughing when they reject you and you feel sorry for yourself. "White girls don't like me". Well they like other oriental guys just saying.

Lets just say I had this problem; "All the universities I like don't accept me. I think its because I'm Indian".

A reasonable person would say no, plenty of Indians get in there fine. Your probably lacking in your grades/personal statement etc. So go improve them. I would then do
A) Do what most people do and actually make an effort to get what I want or
B) Whinge about the unfairness and claim that its my ethnicity when its not. And make other ethnic minorities embarassed and ashamed at my self-pity but I will wallow in it. As long as I can say it is THEIR fault for rejecting me, since it isn't mine.

Except I have never seen a white girl with an Oriental boyfriend in real life and I am from London.

I'm a white girl and my boyfriend is a Chinese guy from China. We live together and our cultural differences don't affect our relationship whatsoever, there's actually very few. He's 6ft tall and most of his friends are a similar height. Through him I know a whole bunch of Chinese guys who are perfectly nice, funny guys, and they're from both China and BBC's. The guys from China don't really have the laddish-ness that local white guys do, which I much prefer. I know less BBC's, but the ones I do know are kinda laddish, but saying that, they're all good guys. I can't really comment on what I think of Chinese guys personalities because everyone is different, just like in every race, and in terms of appearance it's the same again, some guys are very hot and others aren't.

In terms of white girls with Chinese guys, I've seen it more often now, and I'm actually surprised that, with all the half-Chinese kids around here who are my age, it's always their mum who is white and their dad is Chinese, which is pretty cool because I imagine back then when they got married, having an interracial relationship must've been a bit harder if society's attitudes were a lot less tolerant.

So you see Oriental girls with white guys because they are predominantly white countries. But you dont see Oriental guys with white girls because we are ethnic minorities?