Why is it when you watch a porn video, it seems really hot and you're really into it, then as soon as you orgasm, you look at the video and it's literally disgusting and can sometimes make you feel sick?
Why is it when you watch a porn video, it seems really hot and you're really into it, then as soon as you orgasm, you look at the video and it's literally disgusting and can sometimes make you feel sick?
Cause you feel tired and if your in a relationship then you shouldn't really need it
This was a mechanism we evolved in order to stop us having sex constantly. After sex, it was necessary to become disinterested, or else we'd continue seeking pleasure from it to the detriment of other survival/reproductive needs.
Why is it when you watch a porn video, it seems really hot and you're really into it, then as soon as you orgasm, you look at the video and it's literally disgusting and can sometimes make you feel sick?
This and I've had this before. Especially if it's mature porn or some really dirty fetish porn then the effect is even more significant.
This was a mechanism we evolved in order to stop us having sex constantly. After sex, it was necessary to become disinterested, or else we'd continue seeking pleasure from it to the detriment of other survival/reproductive needs.
After ejaculation genitals go through a refractory period in which it loses its re erection capability and it's impossible to orgasm again, it varies between minutes/hours. This refractory period rises with age, weight and other factors also influence it.
It's known as the 'refractory period'. All of the innate behaviours present in humans are the result of evolution by natural selection, and as such can be investigated by asking what benefit the adoption of a given behaviour has. Believed to be responsible for the effect is the release of the chemical prolactin, an inhibitor of dopamine release (dopamine is a key chemical involved in feelings of sexual arousal).
An interesting related phenomenon is the 'Coolidge effect', whereby males express a renewed interest in sex if introduced to a new partner even in this period of inhibited sexual desire. This makes the case fairly clear cut in terms of the natural selective pressures involved: sex with the same partner immediately after ejaculation is a waste of time and energy, whereas sex with a new partner will not be.
Why is it when you watch a porn video, it seems really hot and you're really into it, then as soon as you orgasm, you look at the video and it's literally disgusting and can sometimes make you feel sick?
This is what has totally put me off watching porn, I always just feel so horrified and sad afterwards. Especially as someone who considers themself a feminist and the fact the guys are all absolutely minging. Just makes me feel like a disgusting person.