I have a crush on a Non-Muslim boy?

I'm a 17 years old Muslim girl and at sixth form school.Anyway, I am getting bullied by these chavvy girls(I still don't know how they got into 6th form) but this white non-Muslim guy always looks out for me and stands up for me.For example, every time the girl drops the pen on the floor she screams at me to "pick it up or I'm going to smash your face in!! " The girls are really tall and I'm only short ,plus they have a group of friends in the same class even the teachers are scared of them, so just to stay on the safe side I used to pick the pens up but the guy used to tell me "don't pick it up" and he tells them off for bullying me because they called me "paki" and stuff.If it wasn't for him they'd probably had battered me by now.He has a lot of respect in the School.

Also, when I walk into class he smiles at me, and he pulls my chair out for me. He is super friendly and very polite.But still, although I could see he is goodlooking and friendly I'd never been attracted to him.I'm always careful with getting too close to a guy,whether Muslim or not.I just used to see him as a nice guy.

But the other day, he sat next to me since he was struggling with his assignment and he had gorgeous blue eyes, I hadn't noticed this before. We talked throughout the lesson and he smells so good. I'm not sure but I think I have a crush on him.

Who knows, maybe I've got it all wrong and he doesn't even look at me that way, only trying to be friendly and nice to me but I can't help it, I really fancy him now??

Yet, at the same time I feel so guilty?? I don't want to commit a sin or anything.The thing is I can't really avoid him because I see him at school everyday.This is so weird I'd never fancied a guy before, well certainly not a non-Muslim boy.

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Those girls sound so horrible!!
In my opinion, he just seems like a nice guy who's just looking out for you in a friendly way (i may be wrong xD)
You don't want to commit a sin? Being attracted to someone is natural, you can't really do much about it. Just try and see him in a different light if that's possibe..

Reply 3

Yawn11

This thread would make more sense if Islam was a race or ethnicity.

Reply 4

theskyisblu

Don't feel bad I am in the same situation as you but the guy I have a crush on is muslim. I see him too him like everyday but I keep my feelings at bay tbh, because my islmaic faith is more strong. So it works out...
Oh God I feel for you I hope those bullies get taught a lesson!!
I hope everything goes well for you if it gets worse please report it or something. Keep your head up high bullies are nothing but scums that get jealous probably over that blue eyed boy who has the eyes for you. :smug:

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Reply 5

Clip

Sounds very West Side Story to me.

Reply 6

Hadouken

Original post by Anonymous

I'm a 17 years old Muslim girl and at sixth form school.Anyway, I am getting bullied by these chavvy girls(I still don't know how they got into 6th form) but this white non-Muslim guy always looks out for me and stands up for me.For example, every time the girl drops the pen on the floor she screams at me to "pick it up or I'm going to smash your face in!! " The girls are really tall and I'm only short ,plus they have a group of friends in the same class even the teachers are scared of them, so just to stay on the safe side I used to pick the pens up but the guy used to tell me "don't pick it up" and he tells them off for bullying me because they called me "paki" and stuff.If it wasn't for him they'd probably had battered me by now.He has a lot of respect in the School.

Also, when I walk into class he smiles at me, and he pulls my chair out for me. He is super friendly and very polite.But still, although I could see he is goodlooking and friendly I'd never been attracted to him.I'm always careful with getting too close to a guy,whether Muslim or not.I just used to see him as a nice guy.

But the other day, he sat next to me since he was struggling with his assignment and he had gorgeous blue eyes, I hadn't noticed this before. We talked throughout the lesson and he smells so good. I'm not sure but I think I have a crush on him.

Who knows, maybe I've got it all wrong and he doesn't even look at me that way, only trying to be friendly and nice to me but I can't help it, I really fancy him now??

Yet, at the same time I feel so guilty?? I don't want to commit a sin or anything. The thing is I can't really avoid him because I see him at school everyday.This is so weird I'd never fancied a guy before, well certainly not a non-Muslim boy.

Committing a sin for being attracted to a someone!? FFS! I'm so glad i'm not a muslim

Reply 7

sharmine

Original post by Hadouken

Committing a sin for being attracted to a someone!? FFS! I'm so glad i'm not a muslim

Surely this is a cultural problem rather than religion...

Reply 8

TheFrozenLake.

Original post by Hadouken

Committing a sin for being attracted to a someone!? FFS! I'm so glad i'm not a muslim

That's not a sin no.

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Reply 9

venenecinema

Original post by Hadouken

Committing a sin for being attracted to a someone!? FFS! I'm so glad i'm not a muslim

Exactly what I was thinking, complete nonsense.

Reply 10

Reform

Original post by venenecinema

Exactly what I was thinking, complete nonsense.

Refer to Frozenlake's answer.

Reply 11

study beats

first of all you need to report to someone about the bullying problem or get it sorted

secondly u can talk to the gorgeous white boy lol, but dont touch him, if u think ur not gonna get into trouble then go ahead....maybe he can be ur friend and help u face ur problems?

Reply 12

ilem

Ditch your religion and enjoy your life.

Reply 13

XsimstarX

You can't help who you fall in love with, it's not a sin, it's normal

Simran x

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Original post by TheFrozenLake.

That's not a sin no.

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I know but I 'm worried I might get too close to him and it could lead to sin.

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Anonymous #1

Original post by theskyisblu

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Well they ganged up on me once in the corridor and called me a "paki" and one member of staff even heard it , she just told them to get into class and asked me if I was Ok and that's all.She didn't report them or anything.

Things are getting better though, since I sit away from them now.

Part of me wants to hook up with him simply because it's obvious one of the girls blatantly fancies him :biggrin: