I've no confidence asking a girl to go home with me

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Ye cas English girls all go to the club and then all go home together , girl power!

No. They're getting hammered and then going home with 6 foot beefed up gym junkies.

For a start, you said the majority of women in the world. Now you're saying English girls. Make up your mind.

Also, not all women go out clubbing. So it's not a majority at all.

Reply 21

desdemonata

Original post by Parx

Ye cas English girls all go to the club and then all go home together , girl power!

No. They're getting hammered and then going home with 6 foot beefed up gym junkies.

Well done. You've deduced what actually happens. At uni especially girls go out and get drunk and have fun, and go home with the same people they came with. And that's just the girls who go out.

Reply 22

ChocoCoatedLemons

Original post by Parx

Do you know what - I think I'll **** the slags.

You do that.

Reply 23

rj1990

Original post by 01Sarah10

Most women in this world haven't had a ONS! where are you getting your facts from??

Time to leave ur bedroom.

Reply 24

desdemonata

Original post by ChocoCoatedLemons

You do that.

But use a condom. After all, these girls will have been "wrecked" by "gym junkies" approximately 162 times already.

Reply 25

Parx

Original post by andypandy11

If you can only pull ugly slaggy munters, this is saying something about you OP not them.

Who said I haven't pulled nice girls? I'm talking about taking them home. and I mean NICE girls.

Reply 26

Parx

Original post by Jelkin

You don't seem to like women very much.

No I don't tbh. I have little respect for women in this country. I don't think women set a good example at all.

Reply 27

matches

Original post by Parx

No I don't tbh. I have little respect for women in this country. I don't think women set a good example at all.

Do you think you set a good example? You could well talk a bit nicer yourself, just saying. Even if we girls are not as nice as you wish we were... :/

Reply 28

ChocoCoatedLemons

Original post by desdemonata

But use a condom. After all, these girls will have been "wrecked" by "gym junkies" approximately 162 times already.

Oh yes, of course. In fact, I'd demand a STD test from each slag.

It's so unreasonable to expect a girl to go home with you but not be the sort of girl who goes home with someone she doesn't know very well... :confused:

Reply 29

Parx

Original post by matches

Do you think you set a good example? You could well talk a bit nicer yourself, just saying. Even if we girls are not as nice as you wish we were... :/

No you are 100% right. But frankly, I couldn't give a **** anymore. I realised the hard way that being kind and uninterested in being a loudmouth and showing off gets you nowhere with women, you just get labelled as a 'nice guy' or a 'pushover' just because you're not bothered about trying to seem like the cool guy, or confident guy. Being yourself is not enough for most women, you have to have a bit of ego. So I started to become an ******* and I found myself getting alot more attention from girls! Ah, the world is funny.

Reply 30

gemmam

Original post by Parx

what are you on about? girls are getting wrecked every weekend in clubs and pubs.

I used to go out drinking almost every weekend from ages 17 til 21 and I've never had a ONS (had plently of offers though like most girls) and I'm pretty sure there's other women/girls the same. Some people go to bars and clubs to just have a good time with their friends you know...

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Reply 31

scotttb

Original post by Parx

I'm not asking for a nice classy girl .. for starters few exist in this country.

What I mean is to pull a girl who isn't an out and out hoebag that'll put out to absolutely anyone.

Maybe it doesn't help that you are an arrogant dick who thinks you are better than them because you have the opinion that it is wrong for them to want sex but right for you?

Reply 32

matches

Original post by scotttb

Maybe it doesn't help that you are an arrogant dick who thinks you are better than them because you have the opinion that it is wrong for them to want sex but right for you?

I like your opinion.

Reply 33

Jelkin

Original post by Parx

But not from the kind of girl you would like. Which isn't surprising really, as when you're acting like an ******* you're not being yourself, you're probably being the kind of guy who would go well with these "utter whores" you so unkindly described.

I find men who complain about women in such a way tend to think in extremes - they don't see there's a middle road between being decent/nice but perhaps a bit quiet and/or clingy and being an arrogant, disrespectful jerk. They also tend to let a few bad experiences colour their view of all women. This used to anger me but then I realised that the only people suffering from harbouring these opinions and resentments are the men in question.

Yes, there are lots of crappy women, and lots of crappy men for that matter. People are sheep, etc. etc. But plenty of kind, decent men get nice women. Do you really not know any?

Reply 34

desdemonata

Original post by ChocoCoatedLemons

It is backwards, but you find it unusually often, considering that with anything else you'd realise where you were going wrong with your expectations :lol:

Reply 35

hermitthefrog

Your opinions make me want to puke

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Reply 36

gemmam

Original post by scotttb

Maybe it doesn't help that you are an arrogant dick who thinks you are better than them because you have the opinion that it is wrong for them to want sex but right for you?