Hope for small breasted women!

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The Daily Mail commenters seem to be proving the article right: "Why is it considered sexist or misogynistic to prefer women who look like women? Flat chested women remind men of boys. Fact" Yes, you're not misogynist at all, are you?

Anyway, I like having small boobs. Most clothes are made for women with small breasts, I don't have to wear a bra and they never cause me pain unlike some women with large breasts. I don't really care if people find them attractive because I think they're the right size for me.

Well it's daily Mail readers, what do you expect? :P

I am jealous, my hips and breasts don't fit into anything from TopShop unless its very stretchy, and I'm not even that big, god knows what people with E + boobs do!
Seems like you have a good attitude about it :smile:

Reply 21

LukeM90

Original post by ArtGoblin

Id like this if i had any left for today lol, but your confidence is admirable, I dont get whats wrong with so many people lol, I like boobs of all kinds, but I generally perfer small ones, jus general preference really I know everyone has their own opinions though,

Guess everyone needs someone who likes the kind of person they are, or wed all be very lonely lol

Reply 22

Hopple

Lol, they asked people to choose between these:

It isn't the men objectifying the women, the computer's already done it!

Reply 23

redferry

Original post by Hopple

Lol, they asked people to choose between these:

It isn't the men objectifying the women, the computer's already done it!

Wait that's not what women actually look like?

Reply 24

Kiss

Nobody cares about breasts, ass is where its at.

Reply 25

StacFace

Original post by heirloom

Just think your boobs will never be saggy. You get away with wearing no bra so more clothing options. Most super models have very small breasts, they are still desired by men. Men also like nice legs, which can be improved even if they are not perfect.

The bit in bold is so untrue it's unreal. A woman with small breasts needs a bra to prevent themselves looking completely flat chested. It's women with average sized breasts who can get away with not wearing a bra as they're big enough to not have the problem of looking flat chested yet small enough to not get back pain etc.

Reply 26

redferry

Original post by StacFace

What's wrong with being completely flat chested? :/ may as well embrace it rather than faking boobs then surprising guys when you take your bra off.
and also small does not equal completely flat chested small is AA-B and you can still tell you have boobs without a bra then!
Anyone with non-saggy boobs can get away with not wearing a bra anyway. I'm a DD and I don't have issues on that front, I just don't fit in to a lot of nicer clothes.

Reply 27

bssjonny

Dont see how it sexist to have a preference.
If i said all women should have big tits, i can see how one might think that is sexist. But if i said, i find women more attractive with big boobs than it isn't. I can't see how its any different from women having a preference for tall guys or whatever.
You can't help your preferences, but you can help forcing your views on to others, and suggesting that they should change to meet your desires.

Reply 28

redferry

Original post by bssjonny

Read the article, it is not saying its sexist to have a preference it is saying there is a correlation between mysogyny and preferring big boobs.

Reply 29

peter12345

Original post by Isambard Kingdom Brunel

Don't understand the craving for small breasts, tbh.

Would any woman want a small penis to enjoy?

They are cute. Cuteness is good in women.

Reply 30

bloomblaze

Original post by redferry

To be fair that is pretty much what the article is saying, that men who seriously prefer big boobs are *****.

What is the blacked out word?

Its obviously something bad.

You are implying there is something 'wrong' with a man preferring big boobs or that he is a bad person.

This is very unfair of you.

Reply 31

rainbow.panda

As much as I complain about the smallness of my chest, one of the major reasons I'm glad I don't have big boobs is because when guys talk to me I know it's not because of my chest. Also mine won't be hanging out with my knees when I'm 60, I'll never have back pain because of them and they'll never get in the way when I'm trying on tops :P they certainly haven't stopped me from attracting guys!

Reply 32

bloomblaze

Original post by redferry

Read the article, it is not saying its sexist to have a preference it is saying there is a correlation between mysogyny and preferring big boobs.

You dont actually take the article seriously do you?

Silly question I suppose as you started a thread about it.

There are plenty of men who like big boobs and are not sexist/mysogynysts.

Reply 33

Kiss

Original post by redferry

Read the article, it is not saying its sexist to have a preference it is saying there is a correlation between mysogyny and preferring big boobs.

So every guy who likes big boobs must be a misognyist then?

Reply 34

ArtGoblin

Original post by bloomblaze

You dont actually take the article seriously do you?

Silly question I suppose as you started a thread about it.

There are plenty of men who like big boobs and are not sexist/mysogynysts.

Original post by Kiss

So every guy who likes big boobs must be a misognyist then?

That's not how correlations work. It doesn't necessarily mean that everyone fits into the trend, just that people who are misogynist tend to have a preference for big boobs. I don't think that anyone believes that if someone like big breasts on a woman they must be sexist, but that's not what the article is saying. I would suggest that the reason for the correlation is that misogynist men are probably more likely to consume 'men's magazines' and pornography which fetishise large breasts and therefore influence their consumers to value these traits. But I am not suggesting that this is the case for everyone.

Reply 35

redferry

Original post by bloomblaze

What is the blacked out word?

Its obviously something bad.

You are implying there is something 'wrong' with a man preferring big boobs or that he is a bad person.

This is very unfair of you.

Well if, like me, you think mysogynists are *****, and this article is saying men who prefer big boobs tend to be mysogynists then I did make the leap of saying that this article is saying that men who prefer big boobs tend to be ***** yes.

(edited 11 years ago)

Reply 36

redferry

Original post by bloomblaze

You dont actually take the article seriously do you?

Silly question I suppose as you started a thread about it.

There are plenty of men who like big boobs and are not sexist/mysogynysts.

No, it's from the Daily Mail :P

I quite clearly said they probably just made it up anyway.

Although every feminist guy I know does prefer smaller boobs. But I'm not one for putting too much by anecdotal evidence.

Reply 37

redferry

Original post by Kiss

So every guy who likes big boobs must be a misognyist then?

Well you draw your own conclusions from the article, correlation does not mean it is a rule that applies 100% of the time though, and correlation does not equal causation, and also Daily Mail.

You don't do a science subject do you?

Reply 38

StacFace

Original post by redferry

Women have boobs. Asking why a woman would be unhappy with looking completely flat chested is like asking why someone would be unhappy with looking like they haven't got a nose.

I'm not saying a bra is needed to 'fake' boobs, even a normal non-padded bra will hold them up so that whilst they still don't look big they don't look non-existant either. I don't know about other girls but I personally feel that my breasts look like they're a smaller cup size than they actually are when I wear my pyjamas braless, yet they look the size they actually are either without a top on at all or with a top and normal bra on. So bearing that in mind (and the fact most women will wear a bra) guys aren't going to be surprised when you take your bra off, I'd say if anything it's more likely they'd be surprised they're not smaller when you take your top off if you regularly don't wear a bra.

I know small doesn't equal completely flat chested and this was part of my point. Someone with an AA bra size has small breasts and will appear to have small breasts when they wear a normal bra and top. If they went braless they would instead look flat chested. Hence why it's only once you get to a C or D cup you can actually go braless and not worry about looking like you have no boobs.

Also on a seperate point I disagree it's better to embrace being flat chested than fake boobs. If you're not happy with having small breasts and would feel much more confident if they appeared bigger than I think it makes sense to go for padded bras. You can get a range of bras and they do bikinis and swimsuits etc so the only time you wouldn't have the 'fake bigger boobs' would be when you're topless. If you're insecure about your breast size then that's not going to be often and I'd think of it as like a secret where you don't reveal it in a relationship until you're close enough to trust them.

Reply 39

AwsomePossum

Original post by Millyshyn

Big breasts can get really saggy, even if you're not that old. Also small breasts tend to have nicer looking nipples. Big nipples/areolae look bad in my opinion.