Feel like I'm not good enough and thats why I'm being played!

Hey sorry this is a bit of an essay story but I want to give you the background:-

I met this guy last summer at a family dinner. We didn't flirt but were just friendly. A couple of months ago he contacted me and we talked for a while, then he asked me out. We went out on a few dates and then he stopped texting me for a few days. I texted him first and then we started texting again. He said later that he thought I wasn't into sex and that he didn't want to push me into something I didn't want to do. I started wanting to hang out again, but I didn't want to feel like a booty call. So I made sure that the next few times he came to my house that we just watched films. One night he even came over after a night out and we just hung out. I then let my guard down and we started getting intimate but I still didn't sleep with him because he's the player type and I felt I would just be used for sex. I've had sex with a few guys before where this has happened, so I wanted to do things differently this time. He essentially told me that I know he was using me for sex, and that I shouldn't try to find something else there. So I had enough and stopped texting him. I think in the past he's had confidence issues and now that he's been working out more its gone to his head.

He then got in touch with me a few days later wanting to meet up again. We went out and played mini golf and then went back to his. He cooked for me and then made me feel **** because I wouldn't have sex with him. I know from a few mutual friends that he has had quite a lot of friends with benefits and didn't want to fall into this same position. The last few times that we met up he talked to me like **** and kept mentioning all the other girls that he had been seeing. I told him he should go sleep with a bunch of girls and that I didn't care (Which I did). I know this is bad but when he was looking at his phone, I looked and he hadn't been texting anyone! I don't get why he's lying to me.

I ended up telling him he meant nothing to me. I left and we didn't talk for a few days. Then he called me again wanting to meet up as "friends" as there was apparently no one else he could call even though I know for a fact that there was house party he was invited to. I didn't reply and we haven't talked in a few days. I know I must be another conquest, but I can't help but think he feels something. He's obviously not right for me, but I can't get him out of my system. How do I get over him? Do you think he cares? Or am I another friend with benefits. I know he has commitment issues but then again so do I. I don't exactly want to be in a relationship, I haven't been in relationship for 2 years as Its something I haven't wanted.

What should I do? I feel like I'm not good enough to be girlfriend material but just friends with benefits and its messing with my head. I'm starting ti question myself, I feel like I'm not good enough. Should I get in contact with him again or should I leave it?