Really need advice/opinions quick please!

Okay so basically there's this guy who I've been involved with for quite a few months now. Recently we've been having problems, and haven't been talking much. Today he said he'll see me tomorrow, but for the last time. I questioned why it would have to be the last time, to which he replied 'cos I don't want to see you, not even this time but I said I would see you again' and then he said so it's up to you if i want to meet him or not. It's to go to his house, and I don't understand how that makes any sense. He made the first move by asking me to see him, then he says I don't want to see you but I will see you..? I don't want to say that to him cos then he'll probably turn around and say well don't come then.
Should I go or not? Thoughts and opinions please and thank you!

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Reply 1

APZ70

No, he sounds like a scoundrel. He shouldn't be speaking to you like that.

Reply 2

SummitOfReason

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Original post by Sabz15

Okay so basically there's this guy who I've been involved with for quite a few months now. Recently we've been having problems, and haven't been talking much. Today he said he'll see me tomorrow, but for the last time. I questioned why it would have to be the last time, to which he replied 'cos I don't want to see you, not even this time but I said I would see you again' and then he said so it's up to you if i want to meet him or not. It's to go to his house, and I don't understand how that makes any sense. He made the first move by asking me to see him, then he says I don't want to see you but I will see you..? I don't want to say that to him cos then he'll probably turn around and say well don't come then.
Should I go or not? Thoughts and opinions please and thank you!

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Lose him, and don't be nice about it. Sounds like a bad catch. Move on and find someone who treats you right :smile:

Reply 3

LadyHaha

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Original post by Sabz15

Okay so basically there's this guy who I've been involved with for quite a few months now. Recently we've been having problems, and haven't been talking much. Today he said he'll see me tomorrow, but for the last time. I questioned why it would have to be the last time, to which he replied 'cos I don't want to see you, not even this time but I said I would see you again' and then he said so it's up to you if i want to meet him or not. It's to go to his house, and I don't understand how that makes any sense. He made the first move by asking me to see him, then he says I don't want to see you but I will see you..? I don't want to say that to him cos then he'll probably turn around and say well don't come then.
Should I go or not? Thoughts and opinions please and thank you!

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Sounds like this relationship is over, you should meet up to discuss this somewhere, preferably on 'neutral ground', because it's less cowardly than by email/ phone/ text/ skype...