Girl is leaving uni because of me.

Not sure why I'm posting really as I know the answer. Guess it's just nice to write stuff down I met a girl at uni, we got on great. She has a long term boyfriend back at home though. I didn't realise at the time but me and the girl became too close. Flirting and going for lunches and stuff. It all built up too much and then one night there was some drunken kissing. Yeah, I know, I'm a douche. I assumed that she would be gutted with her behaviour and would never want it mentioned again, so I've not mentioned it, but neither has she. Instead we have seen each other fairly regularly and it's been odd. Like we both know what we are thinking about but the air hasn't been cleared. I can't stop thinking about kissing her and have developed some kind of feelings, but obviously I can't act on them. Anyway, I was pretty shocked to learn that she is dropping out of uni. She said it's not for her but I've been told second hand she wants to make sure things work with her boyfriend. I'm gutted about this but I suppose all I can do is move on. She is holding a leaving night out in a week or so but I don't plan to go. Thanks for reading. As I say, I just want it out there! But if you have any advice thank you.

Not sure why I'm posting really as I know the answer. Guess it's just nice to write stuff down I met a girl at uni, we got on great. She has a long term boyfriend back at home though. I didn't realise at the time but me and the girl became too close. Flirting and going for lunches and stuff. It all built up too much and then one night there was some drunken kissing. Yeah, I know, I'm a douche. I assumed that she would be gutted with her behaviour and would never want it mentioned again, so I've not mentioned it, but neither has she. Instead we have seen each other fairly regularly and it's been odd. Like we both know what we are thinking about but the air hasn't been cleared. I can't stop thinking about kissing her and have developed some kind of feelings, but obviously I can't act on them. Anyway, I was pretty shocked to learn that she is dropping out of uni. She said it's not for her but I've been told second hand she wants to make sure things work with her boyfriend. I'm gutted about this but I suppose all I can do is move on. She is holding a leaving night out in a week or so but I don't plan to go. Thanks for reading. As I say, I just want it out there! But if you have any advice thank you.

This is definitely not your fault!
You didn't make her cheat on her boyfriend. There's probably been a few problems in the relationship since before she went to uni.
Also if she's prepared to drop out of uni in order to attempt to save her failing relationship then it's obviously not that important to her.

Okay she is more at fault than him. But he clearly knew she had a boyfriend and decided to kiss her anyway.

Don't worry about it. You've done nothing wrong. If she wants to leave uni over
this ridiculous thing it's her mistake.

Don't worry about it. You've done nothing wrong. If she wants to leave uni over
this ridiculous thing it's her mistake.

I agree with Phil...

Ok well it's slightly his fault.
But she probably would have found someone else to kiss sooner or later if he hadn't done it.

Hello, thanks for responses. I'm fairly sure that is the reason as one of her mates told me. Girls talk right? Think I will tell her what I feel but also say if she needs me out of the picture so she can continue with uni, I'll disappear. Sound okay?