Keep anon or delete plz
I met a girl yesterday that I'd coincidentally sat next to in the library way back in January but i was too anxious and shame-filled to even say hi even though she was staring and smiling at me. Four months later, she appears in my kitchen. It turns out that she is friends with my flatmate and they know each other through church. I genuinely was shocked to find her in my kitchen and i thought it was fate or something.
I was feeling really shy and nervous and the girl kept staring at me and smiling with really big. brown doe eyes.
I managed to say hi and introduce myself. It turns out that she's doing her AS levels which would make her 17 and i turn 22 in the summer. Is that too big an age difference for it to be seen as creepy/predatory?
Since she's Christian I'm not sure how it would go down, but the one thing that makes me wanna try is how she kept staring at me. It made me feel good yet also nervous at the same time.
If i asked my flatmate for her number and whether she's single, would i be seen as a predatory pervert for hitting on a younger girl? I've never been in a relationship or had sex and i'm not really looking for a quick hump and dump. I'd just like a nice girl i can talk to and be close with.
What do you think?