At 19, how many people had you slept with?
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I'm 19 next week, and my number is at 1.... I have no desire to change that. 
Original post by jazzykinks
Well be grateful that you've met a woman like me now. And stop being so close-minded.
why grateful ?!
I'm not being close minded; I didn't say there's anything wrong with it.
Original post by peedie pixie
I'm 19 next week, and my number is at 1.... I have no desire to change that.
Poor effort
Original post by wildbluesun
I know loads of women who can sleep with people and not get emotionally attached.
Actually, I'm one of them.
Actually, I'm one of them.
Soooooo... Assuming I'm hot as **** to you, if I vaaaaguely indicate I want to have sex you will say yes?
Second question: how many attractive guys do you see in your society/community?
Third question: Can you completely ignore someone who you had a ons with? (Let's say you met him in a supermarket)
Friendly questions.
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4, hopefully to become 5 in the next few months as I've met a boy I really like
Personally I wish my number was lower but I feel like I've gone through a phrase of moderate promiscuity and one-night stands do not appeal anymore
Personally I wish my number was lower but I feel like I've gone through a phrase of moderate promiscuity and one-night stands do not appeal anymore
0. I'm nearly 20 and honestly don't ever really want to have sex :P :P
one, many many times. 23 and still only one, been in a long term relationship for some time...
0, Im 27 and its still 0, its about time I learned how to socialise and flirt lol.
Original post by wildbluesun
I know loads of women who can sleep with people and not get emotionally attached.
Actually, I'm one of them.
Actually, I'm one of them.
I bet you see old virgins like me as being weird as hell, I wish Id have had your lifestyle for a bit save me beig in this situation now.
None....:/
none - and I'm nearly 20. getting a little frustrated about it to be honest, considering I still havent even been kissed. -_-
Original post by civilstudent
I bet you see old virgins like me as being weird as hell, I wish Id have had your lifestyle for a bit save me beig in this situation now.
No I don't see it as weird...I don't think it's odd when people are virgins even at a relatively old age. Different people become sexually active at different ages, it's cool.
I get a bit sad if someone is having less sex than they want though, just because I don't like seeing people sad and an unsatisfactory sex life is often a cause of misery. (Assuming they're not getting laid because they're shy or disabled or something, not because they're an ******** to everyone they meet, in which case STFU you deserve it.)
Original post by RedArrow
Soooooo... Assuming I'm hot as **** to you, if I vaaaaguely indicate I want to have sex you will say yes?
Second question: how many attractive guys do you see in your society/community?
Third question: Can you completely ignore someone who you had a ons with? (Let's say you met him in a supermarket)
Friendly questions.
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Second question: how many attractive guys do you see in your society/community?
Third question: Can you completely ignore someone who you had a ons with? (Let's say you met him in a supermarket)
Friendly questions.
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It's cool I don't mind answering questions so long as they're not hugely judgemental, which I don't think you're being.
Jazzykinks probably has stuff to say on the subject as well. If I think someone is fit and they indicate they want to have sex with me I will say yes unless any of the following apply: they're unsuitable (eg in a closed relationship - it freaks me out when taken monogamous people hit on me, it's like WTF ARE YOU DOING THIS IS WRONG), the context is bad - I wouldn't shag a work person - I'm busy with school and don't have time, there isn't a suitable venue available (ie we both live with our parents), or I just thnl they're not a good person. I stopped sleeping with someone relatively recently because even though he's hot and good in bed, I don't like the way he talks about women or his sexual partners; he refers to the women he meets in clubs as "club sluts".
In reality, at least one of the above applies probably a majority of the time.
How many attractive guys do I see? TBH I'm not sure most of the time I'm just doing stuff and not worrying about how attractive people are. It's a hard question to answer because so much of what I find attractive is bound up in what I know of someone's personality and/or what I know of their kinks and how they like to play (I'm into the fetish scene which complicates things).
If I'm at a club, I am normally willing to at least talk to and possibly make out the the majority of the people there (I say people because I'm bi so women attract me as well). I find that after that first kiss, there's normally either a sexual tension or there...isn't.
I would also be friendly and nice to a hook up I saw out and about; always smile and say hi, just as I would with any other person I've had pleasant but not hugely important contact with, like someone I worked with once or someone who was in the year below me at school.
Unless they were really horrible to me - which in fairness not many people are - in which case I tend to avoid them and hope they don't notice me.
Original post by wildbluesun
It's cool I don't mind answering questions so long as they're not hugely judgemental, which I don't think you're being. Jazzykinks probably has stuff to say on the subject as well.
If I think someone is fit and they indicate they want to have sex with me I will say yes unless any of the following apply: they're unsuitable (eg in a closed relationship - it freaks me out when taken monogamous people hit on me, it's like WTF ARE YOU DOING THIS IS WRONG), the context is bad - I wouldn't shag a work person - I'm busy with school and don't have time, there isn't a suitable venue available (ie we both live with our parents), or I just thnl they're not a good person. I stopped sleeping with someone relatively recently because even though he's hot and good in bed, I don't like the way he talks about women or his sexual partners; he refers to the women he meets in clubs as "club sluts".
In reality, at least one of the above applies probably a majority of the time.
How many attractive guys do I see? TBH I'm not sure most of the time I'm just doing stuff and not worrying about how attractive people are. It's a hard question to answer because so much of what I find attractive is bound up in what I know of someone's personality and/or what I know of their kinks and how they like to play (I'm into the fetish scene which complicates things).
If I'm at a club, I am normally willing to at least talk to and possibly make out the the majority of the people there (I say people because I'm bi so women attract me as well). I find that after that first kiss, there's normally either a sexual tension or there...isn't.
I would also be friendly and nice to a hook up I saw out and about; always smile and say hi, just as I would with any other person I've had pleasant but not hugely important contact with, like someone I worked with once or someone who was in the year below me at school.
Unless they were really horrible to me - which in fairness not many people are - in which case I tend to avoid them and hope they don't notice me.
Jazzykinks probably has stuff to say on the subject as well. If I think someone is fit and they indicate they want to have sex with me I will say yes unless any of the following apply: they're unsuitable (eg in a closed relationship - it freaks me out when taken monogamous people hit on me, it's like WTF ARE YOU DOING THIS IS WRONG), the context is bad - I wouldn't shag a work person - I'm busy with school and don't have time, there isn't a suitable venue available (ie we both live with our parents), or I just thnl they're not a good person. I stopped sleeping with someone relatively recently because even though he's hot and good in bed, I don't like the way he talks about women or his sexual partners; he refers to the women he meets in clubs as "club sluts".
In reality, at least one of the above applies probably a majority of the time.
How many attractive guys do I see? TBH I'm not sure most of the time I'm just doing stuff and not worrying about how attractive people are. It's a hard question to answer because so much of what I find attractive is bound up in what I know of someone's personality and/or what I know of their kinks and how they like to play (I'm into the fetish scene which complicates things).
If I'm at a club, I am normally willing to at least talk to and possibly make out the the majority of the people there (I say people because I'm bi so women attract me as well). I find that after that first kiss, there's normally either a sexual tension or there...isn't.
I would also be friendly and nice to a hook up I saw out and about; always smile and say hi, just as I would with any other person I've had pleasant but not hugely important contact with, like someone I worked with once or someone who was in the year below me at school.
Unless they were really horrible to me - which in fairness not many people are - in which case I tend to avoid them and hope they don't notice me.
Cool. The first-two responses are great.
Except yr third response. No emotional attachment means no botheration!
And I'm certainly out your list since I agree with the club sluts tag. It actually makes sense if you hear us out!
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Well there's not being emotionally attached and then there's just being rude...like if I saw one of my mum's friends I'd say hi. I'm not really fussed about what happens to my mum's friend, I don't know them, but I do recognise them from when they've been at my house and I think that if you see someone you recognise out and about, it's polite to at least nod and smile. I say hi to the person behind the counter at the local corner shop FFS, just because I go there regularly and they recognise me.
I'd be interested to hear your justification for the "club sluts" tag. (Unless you're using slut in the non-pejorative sense, which might make sense. The guy I stopped sleeping with was definitely using it pejoratively though.)
I'd be interested to hear your justification for the "club sluts" tag. (Unless you're using slut in the non-pejorative sense, which might make sense. The guy I stopped sleeping with was definitely using it pejoratively though.)
Original post by freeurmind
Poor effort
It's called living on a small island where everyone knows everything. I don't want a reputation, thanks.
Original post by peedie pixie
It's called living on a small island where everyone knows everything. I don't want a reputation, thanks.
Crazy bastard !! Reputations are cool
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