Talking to cute guy on uni's library

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Reply 20

Steezy

Talk to him... Seems pretty simple really. He's obviously too shy to initiate.

Reply 21

AboveTheLine

A a shy guy, make the first move for once. Please!

Just say hi.

The guy is most likely shy so you could try making the first move.
Next time you see him, just say hi, give him a friendly smile and try to strike up a conversation.

Reply 24

cambio wechsel

Original post by Anonymous

I don't know his name, I don't know what he's studying (probably chemistry), basically I know nothing about him..

You: Is it chemistry?
Him: Yes, it is.
You: Yeah, I'm feeling it too.

Reply 25

study beats

Original post by Anonymous

This may sound ridiculously childish, it probably is, but I just don't know what to do and it's driving me crazy because the term is going to be over soon and who knows if i'll ever see him again (different schedules).

Basically every Monday I go to to study to the library and there he is, this overly cute guy, just meters away from me. The first time I saw him there I obviously couldn't keep my eyes off him, and he must have noticed because he looked at me from time to time. However we haven't spoken a single word to each other, probably because he seems so shy!

This has been going on like this for weeks, and I am 98% sure that he has noticed something going on. Every time he stands up to pick a book I look at him and he sometimes looks back at me, and i'm like, what the heck is going on in his mind!?

I don't know his name, I don't know what he's studying (probably chemistry), basically I know nothing about him..

I've been trying to figure out what to say to him, and all I could think of was giving him a note with my phone number HAHA that's so lame.

Any ideas? What do I do??
Cute guy, how do I approach you??

LOL, this is funny, ur awkwardness is hilarious

Reply 26

41b

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(edited 10 years ago)

Reply 27

Djordje

Wink. Say hi. Give him a definite sign you're interested. You ain't got nothin' to lose.

Reply 28

emilie18

Original post by Anonymous

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Cute guy, how do I approach you??

It seems like you're overthinking it a little - keep it simple, just smile at him and say hi. Ask him how his work his going, take it from there.

Good luck :awesome:

Original post by cambio wechsel

You should say "ooh, you can take me out without incurring late-charges".

(On no account should you say this)

Original post by cambio wechsel

You might say "if you're looking for something gripping at bedtime, well you've found it"

(I beg you don't, mind)

Reply 29

Bronco2012

Spill your cola on him. That's bound to get his attention.

Reply 30

username451311

Just say something to him or leave him a message when he goes to get a book. If you do nothing, you'll regret it if you don't see him again and if you do say something and nothing happens at least you've tried and it's nearly end of term anyway so it won't be awkward :smile:

Reply 31

flyingarmbarman

Original post by Anonymous

This may sound ridiculously childish, it probably is, but I just don't know what to do and it's driving me crazy because the term is going to be over soon and who knows if i'll ever see him again (different schedules).Basically every Monday I go to to study to the library and there he is, this overly cute guy, just meters away from me. The first time I saw him there I obviously couldn't keep my eyes off him, and he must have noticed because he looked at me from time to time. However we haven't spoken a single word to each other, probably because he seems so shy!This has been going on like this for weeks, and I am 98% sure that he has noticed something going on. Every time he stands up to pick a book I look at him and he sometimes looks back at me, and i'm like, what the heck is going on in his mind!?I don't know his name, I don't know what he's studying (probably chemistry), basically I know nothing about him..I've been trying to figure out what to say to him, and all I could think of was giving him a note with my phone number HAHA that's so lame.Any ideas? What do I do??Cute guy, how do I approach you??

If im in a library, STFU

Reply 32

tomgidlow

Act really nice to him, get to know him, then **** HIM OVER

Reply 33

username677182

Original post by tomgidlow

Act really nice to him, get to know him, then **** HIM OVER

Who hurt you?

Reply 34

ChocoCoatedLemons

Original post by tomgidlow

Act really nice to him, get to know him, then **** HIM OVER

The bitterness is strong in this one.

Reply 35

Bobifier

Original post by Yawn11

Who the hell says that to a stranger? Outside of wonderland I mean.

For people who don't often post on TSR, it is occasionally acceptable to talk to strangers.

Reply 36

tomgidlow

Original post by ChocoCoatedLemons

The bitterness is strong in this one.

You know how it is, nah mean

Reply 37

Student2806

Work into a conversation with him. Ask him if he has a spare pen or something really trivial (I wouldn't go up to him and start asking how or what he's doing straight away, I'd find that a bit odd if someone did it to me. I'd probably start panicking that I know them but can't remember who they are).
If that goes well and you get a good feeling, ask him what he's studying, how his revision is going etc. If he likes you and is just shy, he'll jump at the chance to get to know you.
The worst than can happen is he says no and you move on.

(edited 10 years ago)

Reply 38

Truflais

Short skirt, no pants, bend over near him. Boom.

Naw, but seriously. This doesn't need to be some meticulous plan. Just approach him and ask him out, it's nearly the end of the year so even if he turns you down who cares? It's not like he's even in any of your classes.