How to get guys attention when out?

Whenever I am out with my friends I always see attractive guys but im too shy to approach them. I was wondering if there are any techniques I could use to get their attention?!

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Reply 1

Vonlenska

Where low cut clothes, get super drunk, shout, scream, flaunt your ass and tits.

Talk to them.

Cleavage. Or as the user below me suggested - smile. Let them know you're interested, if you're avoiding eye contact they'll assume you're not interested.

If that fails, talk to them.

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Reply 4

Capn cas

Flash a smile and make eye contact, maybe flick your hair or something. That usually clues up senseless males such as myself.

Reply 5

Get_Lucky_606

Original post by Vonlenska

Where low cut clothes, get super drunk, shout, scream, flaunt your ass and tits.

Shout and scream lol, In all seriousness though this will most likely work

Reply 6

VeniViciVidi

Original post by Foo.mp3

IOI

What's an IOI?

Reply 7

VeniViciVidi

Original post by Foo.mp3

Indication Of Interest

Why couldn't you have said that the first time?

Reply 8

123formyabc

Ok I don't recommend this but... wear little clothing

Reply 9

LavenderBlueSky88

My tried and tested, fail safe method is eye contact. Catch their eye for a little longer than you usually would, then look away. Do it a couple of times and maybe smile as well. Before you know it they'll be walking over to you.

Reply 10

Caits7

Three words:
Push up bra.

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

I get nervous too most of the time. Sometimes I just give up because I'm too awkward to think of something to say :P

Reply 12

aspirinpharmacist

Original post by Caits7

Three words:
Push up bra.

To be honest, nice underwear is just generally a good idea. Not even just for going out, it's a massive help in exams.

This makes it sound like I used less that legit means to pass my exams :lol:

I didn't, it's just very comforting knowing that even if the exam goes terribly, your underwear is awesome.

Reply 13

Caits7

Original post by aspirinpharmacist

To be honest, nice underwear is just generally a good idea. Not even just for going out, it's a massive help in exams.

This makes it sound like I used less that legit means to pass my exams :lol:

I didn't, it's just very comforting knowing that even if the exam goes terribly, your underwear is awesome.

Totally agree.
I mean, when everything is falling apart around you, always good to know you have some nice underwear on ^_^

Reply 14

FutureHeartSurg

Original post by lilywilliams

Whenever I am out with my friends I always see attractive guys but im too shy to approach them. I was wondering if there are any techniques I could use to get their attention?!

Do NOT do the slutty things that others have been saying. Girls that show too much generally are passed up by classy guys and are taken by people who just want to get into your pants.
Of course if that's all you want, then by all means. But if you really want to get their attention, dress smart and try to go with as few girls as possible. You on your own at a bar will give you greater success than if you're with a bunch of your friends, because guys can get intimidated with groups of girls if they're singling out one.

Reply 15

Theflyingbarney

Turn up dressed as a canary. That would certainly get the attention of most guys I know

Reply 16

Danz123

Original post by eliza.anne

Cleavage. Or as the user below me suggested - smile. Let them know you're interested, if you're avoiding eye contact they'll assume you're not interested.

If that fails, talk to them.

I think what should take priority is talking to them to be honest. I know OP said she was scared to approach, but then confidence in this area is what she needs to work on.

It boggles my mind why girls do everything under the sun to try and get a guy's attention all to avoid the apparently arduous task of talking to him.

Reply 17

Truflais

Original post by Danz123

Fear of rejection I suppose :dontknow:

I agree though, it shouldn't be as difficult as people make it out to be.

Reply 18

aspirinpharmacist

Original post by Caits7

Totally agree.
I mean, when everything is falling apart around you, always good to know you have some nice underwear on ^_^

Yep, when the universe ends I'll be happy in the knowledge that I've got a decent bra on. :lol:

Reply 19

Danz123

Original post by eliza.anne

Fear of rejection I suppose :dontknow:

I agree though, it shouldn't be as difficult as people make it out to be.

Yeah, but then we get into the circle of guys saying they fear rejection, and girls saying the same, and we end up nowhere.

Imagine if guys went to ridiculous lengths to get a girl's attention, purely because asking her was just too damn hard. For example, if we lived in a sort of alternate universe where guys had to give a cheeky grin and flash a six-pack (haha) to get the girl to stroll over. But at least you agree that talking's the way forward. :smile: