Never been kissed at 19

I'm just feel that when I do have sex, i'll get so excited it will be over after like 10 seconds

Hi, I feel for you man but don't worry.

Before you do anything to your body, make sure you wear nice clothes, not ones your mom buy you. Get yourself a Ralph Lauren t-shirt (can get them for £30 online), nice fitted jeans from river island or topman, and some nice nike blazers.

In a society like ours, we are trained to instantly judge people by what they wear. Its wrong, but we all do it.

Make sure you have confidence and also look approachable and you'll be fine. I respect the fact you're not drinking, but don't shy when it comes to buying a girl a drink.

Good luck!

Nope. Besides if you're just looking to pull and get your rocks off I doubt they'll even know you've never had sex/a girlfriend before. Just don't mention being horny all the time and that you smoke weed. Good luck son.

Word of advice, working out at a gym and trying to imitate that sort of arrogant pricks is not the way about going about getting genuinely nice girls, just be yourself and take the notion of physical contact off the table for a while, just get to know them first like you would a guy mate, then start to slowly draw in.

And mate, smoking weed is pretty typical, but don't go boasting about it like your cool for doing it, that comes across as very pathetic. Not gonna lie.

And btw, it seems like your on this quest because of pressure from other people, at the end of the day noone really gives a **** what you do, its your private life, just do it when your fully ready and comfortable, don't rush in and have some awkward drunken fresher experience just to say your not a virgin anymore. Just chill out ffs.

So i'm 19, start uni in September at Nottingham which I hear is FULL of girls. I would say i'm fairly attractive, I get compliments quite often.

However...I'm a virgin, i've never had a girlfriend and the closest female contact i've had is hugs. I used to be a very shy, awkward and nervous guy but hitting the gym hard over the last year and going out meeting people through work i've become a lot more confident with girls and generally myself. For example last week I managed to get a girls number from the bus after talking to her for 10 mins and I felt pretty damn good, my text 'game' isn't great so after a few flirty texts she stopped responding. (I basically said I enjoyed smoking weed occaasionally and she stopped replying..)

I've never really had a chance to have a proper girlfriend because my parents are incredibly strict muslims (Bengali). So haven't had a chance to do anything with girls. However, moving away from uni will allow me to do so! Won't drink alcohol for personal reasons but do I still have a good chance of getting girls? I just feel so horny all the tiem. Would girls find it weird if a guy is confident/attractive but never ever had a girlfriend/kiss/sex?

i bet there are loads of people who say they have but haven't so don't sweat it and just go and have fun. i doubt girls are going to be checking your past sex life if they just want sex or whatever so you probably don't need to worry.

I'm on this quest because I'm horny as hell and want some female contact in my life! Not because I need acceptance from my peers...an important lesson I learned this year was not to give a f*** what people think of you.