Anyone else fed up of being harassed to try anal sex?

For a while now my boyfriend has being asking me to try anal sex with him, something that he also has never done but has repeatedly said is his ultimate fantasy. I really don't feel comfortable (personally) with the idea of anal for many reasons, while I accept that many people practice and enjoy it. Although I've made it very clear to my boyfriend that I don't want to do it, he continually hints that we should try it and while this is often done in a lighthearted way it gets me down because I feel like I'm not enough for him without it. What's even worse is that all his friends know how much he wants to do it and have even baited me about it when they're drunk, making me feel ganged-up against. Has anyone else felt similarly pressured to try anal (or anything else sexual) when they really don't want to, just to stop the pestering? This issue is really getting me down, especially because we generally have a really strong relationship and I feel like his obsession could end up splitting us up.

Haven't come across this issue. I think I would find it difficult to go for this if a girlfrind wanted it, even though I would want to be an adventurous lover. Also hard for me to understand it being the ultimate fantasy. Have you had a really serious chat where you tell him this is getting to you and you want the hints to stop?

For a while now my boyfriend has being asking me to try anal sex with him, something that he also has never done but has repeatedly said is his ultimate fantasy. I really don't feel comfortable (personally) with the idea of anal for many reasons, while I accept that many people practice and enjoy it. Although I've made it very clear to my boyfriend that I don't want to do it, he continually hints that we should try it and while this is often done in a lighthearted way it gets me down because I feel like I'm not enough for him without it. What's even worse is that all his friends know how much he wants to do it and have even baited me about it when they're drunk, making me feel ganged-up against. Has anyone else felt similarly pressured to try anal (or anything else sexual) when they really don't want to, just to stop the pestering? This issue is really getting me down, especially because we generally have a really strong relationship and I feel like his obsession could end up splitting us up.

Tell him if you can put a dildo up his ass then he can put his penis up yours.
Bet he won't be so keen anymore.

Tell him if you can put a dildo up his ass then he can put his penis up yours.
Bet he won't be so keen anymore.

yeah, but what if he's up for it?

Tell him if you can put a dildo up his ass then he can put his penis up yours.
Bet he won't be so keen anymore.

In his defence, it is pretty good.


Edit: On a more serious note, you might be being unreasonable with yourself. Why are you hostile to it? Maybe your reasons are not particularly good.
If you think it over rationally and still come to the conclusion that you don't want to, then I suggest telling him that you want him to do something he doesn't like, since that's your sexual fantasy. You'll either end the arguing, or you'll have an interesting trade, but either way that would stop him going on about anal.

Not surprised the most beta white knight statement here comes from a guy .

If my girlfriend ever said that she would know exactly what would happen next: the door will be open and she will be shown the direction to it.

That's really out of order IMO, he's basically prioritising one sexual act that he's never even experienced above your feelings.

She's not being unreasonable; if she doesn't want to try something sexually the fact she doesn't want to do it is a 'good' enough reason, since it's her body. The fact he is trying pressure her into doing it, and the fact his mates "bait" her while drunk suggests he clearly isn't respecting her 'no'. I second what someone else has said - give him a taste of his own medicine. Say you want a strap on and do him up the ass with it, see how he responds. (awkward if he says yes, but take the risk)

Tell him if you can put a dildo up his ass then he can put his penis up yours.
Bet he won't be so keen anymore.

Isn't it like a reverse poo?

No, it isn't.

just tell him you dont want to risk piles, prolapse or incontinence which can all occur from anal (very, very few people really wants to date a girl that constantly ****s herself)anal can be very dangerous its not something the body is designed to do, just show him these:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jtWF0RPv0EYhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kPkJhHZXLUwthe above two are just examples, just Google anal sex risks there are thousands more like thesealso point out there is a good chance he could get E.coli or an infection (such as bladder or kidney) from microscopic fecal bacteria which can cause sepsis