I have written a lot on non-drinkers in the past and HATE the SU for not having a proper, non-alcoholic programme. However, you won't be alone
but you will need to take the initiative a bit more than other perhaps might.
Firstly, everything settles down with your flatmates by week 3 or 4, so don't worry bout them really. You'll get to know them properly when they aren't running a 5pm - 5am waking schedule
. However, if you DO see them at all, DO make an effort to talk to them, chat to them and be friendly. Yes, they'll probably ask why you don't drink, but shouldn't, unless they're douches, make a big deal out of it (then it isn't worth being friends with them full stop in my opinion
). As long as you try to get to know them, they'll be respectful of you
In order for your own entertainment however, not all of your flatmates will go out each night, so do pop along to the kitchen to see if people are chatting/playing cards or whatever. That's step 1.
Once freshers has calmed down, your coursemates start do organise stuff with each other. So you'll be invited to events with those people. As above, make an effort with them and you'll be fine
. Do try and turn up to lectures 10-15 minutes early so you can talk with the other people that are there
. This all falls properly into place by Christmas, so plenty of time to just wander up to people and say hi (which is the only way to do it unfortunately!
)
After all that, there's societies and sports clubs. I have said in the past that they are for students, by students. They're happy to see each and every one of you that turn up. So long as you stay dedicated, you'll make your closest friends here
. After all, you're all there for the same reason
. During freshers, these societies put on taster sessions, for free. Make the most of it!
. I damn well shall be, and I'm a third year!
That's a small outline anyway
. I blog for the university, so shall write a more comprehensive article on this topic for you all in a week or so