It hurts me SO much. I know everyone says it's not a reflection on the girlfriend, but if it was normal and natural, it would be normal and natural for me to accept it and it shouldn't bother me. before porn was so so common and so easily accessible, i'm sure guys didn't die of sexual starvation. it's just because it's there that he watches it, not because he needs to. i don't understand why so many people see it as 'normal' and acceptable.