Keep messing up with women

Hey, 3 women approached you in the last what? 2 weeks? You can still message the first girl and ask to meet up, say you were feeling a bit crap the other night. Just because a conversation didn't go amazing you can still talk to the 2nd girl, and shame about the 3rd but if you'll never see her again not much you can do. Just because everything didn't go 100% perfectly doesn't mean you mess everything up.

1) A girl I like messaged me early hours last night, asking me where I was and wanted to meet her.

I declined, played with the idea a bit, said to her only if she had ideas, then she told me where she was. Eventually I bottled it and told her I would check out the pub she wanted to go to when sober.

Basically I befriended the bar tender, and was getting free drinks all night.

I am now thinking I totally messed up. As I like this one.

2) Had a woman approach me last week, she asked me where I had been, playing with her hair etc as I was talking to her.

I ended up boring her to hell, she ended convo and walked off.

3) Another girl, rich and hot, ended up asking me for my number. I stupidly didn't ask for hers, so never got the chance to pursue things.

AND of course,

I do get my fair share of rejections. Like every guy. Can't win them all.

Help.

Yeah - tbh I get rejected a lot too. Like I had one play a stupid game last night and then tell me I wasn't her type.

I'm not over my ex - have trust issues so that isn't helping. Should I wait for a reply from the first girl, I really hate chasing girls as I don't want to be strung along.

Dude, come on. She put herself on a plate and you turned her down. That's brutal

Well despite some rejecting you, they obviously do see you as a potential partner unlike some guys who complain about being "friendzoned" so you must be doing something right. It sounds like you do get a lot of female attention even if it doesn't work out with them.

You really didn't ruin it with the first girl at all, just let her know that you weren't up for meeting up that night, but you definitely do want to meet up some time and then ask her out She won't hate you just because 1 night you weren't feeling like meeting up. I'm sure she has nights where she would rather just stay in as well.