Partner is driving me mad. Stalling like crazy. He's almost 30 and acts as though I'm asking him to have a child at 12 and end his life.
See, we're different states of mind.
Him : Having a child will end my life.
Me: Having a child will MAKE my life.
It's as though I'm working full time at the moment, and enjoying it, but having a child would give me something to really work for.
I have savings, plenty of them, that I've been amassing for years, two of which have been working full time with next to no social life.. I have enough to take two years off completely, possibly three, yet he won't do it! I work from home, and by the time I need to work again, the child would be old enough to go to nursery a couple of days a week which would allow me to work, and by the time the child went to school I'd obviously be able to work near enough full time again.
Long story short.. we'd cope.
But he won't admit it.
He's driving me mad.