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Has she responded?

Yes massage girl, i didn't technically say anything to her, when we had a bit of a tiss (when i annoyed her) i told her i liked her and wanted to sort things out, she just told that although hates to say it, she doens't see me in that way ....

However i'm used to rejection, i'll feel crap for a few days then be back to normalish ...

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I think you're thinking too much of the whole issue. Maybe it's time to forget about the whole dating thing for a while and be natural for a few months, see if it gets you further. You shouldn't really plan how you're going to form a relationship with someone, if two people are a good match for each other and the feeling is mutual it should happen much more naturally than this.

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never said i planned it, i did like her when we had the little disagreement, was gonna ask her out etc. but she doens't like me that way

Just saying that i'm used to rejection, always happens

She might have led you on a bit to be fair. I have never heard of a girl going round to a guys place to watch films and have a massage on his bed if she wasn't interested in him in that way.

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2 days of movies? Onset rigor mortis

Hope you get it There's one person in my classes who does it, I know that much

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I think you're thinking too much of the whole issue. Maybe it's time to forget about the whole dating thing for a while and be natural for a few months, see if it gets you further. You shouldn't really plan how you're going to form a relationship with someone, if two people are a good match for each other and the feeling is mutual it should happen much more naturally than this.

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My thoughts exactly. Just gotta let things take its course.

Cliche'd, but if it's meant to be, it'll be. You can't force your way through these things imo.

Cliche'd, but if it's meant to be, it'll be. You can't force your way through these things imo.

Thats what I was going to say as well! You just can't force it, I mean just let things happen. Its ok to give things a little push- e.g. ask the person to dinner or whatever but its never good to put that on everything just sit back, relax and let it all happen haha. XD

I wasn't trying to force myself or her into it, i'm just sick of being rejected by EVERY SINGLE ****ING GIRL I GET ATTRACTED TO

Is it really that big of a deal? There'll always be other women around.

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I wasn't trying to force myself or her into it, i'm just sick of being rejected by EVERY SINGLE ****ING GIRL I GET ATTRACTED TO

It may not matter to any of you if you're loney / single, but to me it does matter i want someone i can give compassion to, to feel special etc. and to have that denied by rejection each and every time ... just makes my blood boil some times

Tom, so do I, and it may or may not come as a surprise but i've been through this in its entirety myself, albeit 3 years ago instead of now. You HAVE to learn to brush it under the carpet like i have or it's just going to eat at you from the inside. Trust me, it's not worth getting stressed out about and women can read it like a book.

The more you stress out about it, the less likely a girl is to want to be with you, they want someone who is emotionally stable.

The day you learn to stop caring, the day you become so much happier and satisfied in general. It's fine to want someone but the minute it starts dictating your happiness in general, it's time to put it aside for a few weeks and forget about the whole matter.

Let me phrase it to you like this: you've been intrsetd in women romantically since you were 16 but only really cared at 18, you're a hopless romantic, you want someone to feel close to, you had next to no female attention before university, while at uni you start to get some female attention, however they turn out to mostly be friendly, now you develop feelings for someone, you start to think about asking them out, you then find out she is either no interested or is already taken. Add into that that 90% of the people you know are in realationships and do all the lovey dovey stuff associated with it (i don't just mean sex here) and in your heart of hearts you want to do that, you want to shower a girl with romance, want to make her feel special, yet whenever you think you've found a girl like that she shuts the door on you

Then tell me it doens't get under your skin in a bad way

It may not matter to any of you if you're loney / single, but to me it does matter i want someone i can give compassion to, to feel special etc. and to have that denied by rejection each and every time ... just makes my blood boil some times

Maybe you come off a bit strong? Idk how much of this you tell/show someone you're interested but i'd probably be scared off if someone told me all that. It's what we all want deep down, but i'd be a bit overwhelmed if I heard that. Although I'm probably not a typical girl.

I don't tell the girl that, this is what i'm feeling deep down and i'm writing it to express my frustratio