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Original post by Mastermind007
Speak for yourself and not everyone of your race...


Erm.. Don't know if you can read but I did say me :smile: not us.
Original post by Mastermind007
I'm aware of what you said. You imply multiple times that it is because you're South Asian (the ugly kind of Asian apparently) that you are unattractive. My comment stands.


Okay well I'm sorry if I offended you.
I meant I'm unattractive. Not anyone else of my race. Hope that clears it up and we can be best of chums? :smile:
Original post by Ayesha.Tabassam95
Aye.. You'd like that wouldnt you :colone:

Btw do fb photos profile pics count.. With filters cough cough.


Don't think that counts :tongue: BUT, as Reckless said, if you don't want to put up your pics, don't feel like you have to

Original post by Mastermind007
Speak for yourself and not everyone of your race...


Original post by Mastermind007
I'm aware of what you said. You imply multiple times that it is because you're South Asian (the ugly kind of Asian apparently) that you are unattractive. My comment stands.


Bit harsh. I've noticed that with some South Asian/Black people, some people think they're "ugly" because of their race. I think a lot of it might stem from two things

a) Racism in the West ie: "Go away, you ugly paki"
b) The amount of skin whitening products sold in African/South Asian countries - so that issue stems back centuries ie: the darker you are, the more likely you were to work on the fields etc...

Original post by Mastermind007
Lol I'm pretty sure you're trolling on here but thanks for that :awesome:


I don't think she is. I've gotten to know her off TSR, and honestly all she needs to do is build up her confidence. Yeah that sounds easier said than done of course
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Original post by Mastermind007
I'm sorry, may I ask why my comments were harsh? This girl has been telling people that she is ugly BECAUSE she is South Asian. As a South Asian myself I simply suggested that she speak for herself only and not everyone in her race as that would be offensive to other South Asians.

I don't really understand your 2 points because I'm 1.) already aware of them and 2.) I don't think either myself or South Asians on the whole are ugly.


The bit in bold ie: it's sorta implying she is. Of course that's not what you meant, but text doesn't really allow you to portray tone :smile:
Original post by Mastermind007
Lol I'm pretty sure you're trolling on here but thanks for that :awesome:


Lol.. Am.I trolling? I didn't even realise. Am I supposed to put up a pic to show I'm not? Have you put one up?

Original post by de_monies
Don't think that counts :tongue: BUT, as Reckless said, if you don't want to put up your pics, don't feel like you have to

Bit harsh. I've noticed that with some South Asian/Black people, some people think they're "ugly" because of their race. I think a lot of it might stem from two things

a) Racism in the West ie: "Go away, you ugly paki"
b) The amount of skin whitening products sold in African/South Asian countries - so that issue stems back centuries ie: the darker you are, the more likely you were to work on the fields etc...


Lol you can still see its me :tongue:
I'd like to.. Just a bit nervous. Did you put your pic up?
Original post by Mastermind007
I'm sorry, may I ask why my comments were harsh? This girl has been telling people that she is ugly BECAUSE she is South Asian. As a South Asian myself I simply suggested that she speak for herself only and not everyone in her race as that would be offensive to other South Asians. It was this outlook of hers that irked me a bit.

I don't really understand your 2 points because I'm 1.) already aware of them and 2.) I don't think either myself or South Asians on the whole are ugly.


No no I'm sorry I didn't mean that. Sorry if it came across that way.
'This girl' well that isn't very nice :frown:
Can I ask what part you're from?
Original post by Ayesha.Tabassam95
Lol.. Am.I trolling? I didn't even realise. Am I supposed to put up a pic to show I'm not? Have you put one up?



Lol you can still see its me :tongue:
I'd like to.. Just a bit nervous. Did you put your pic up?


Yeah, but it's meant to be unedited :biggrin: And I put one up a while ago, but here's me again I guess...

Same kinda setting...

Original post by Mastermind007
I don't think referring to South Asian as the "ugly kind of Asian" is just speaking for herself.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not super annoyed about this or anything but I would like to set the record straight that I wasn't out of line saying what I did. I agree about the confidence issue then if you know her in real life.


Fair enough I guess. I guess wording things correctly plays a big part in getting your message across, whoever is saying it :smile: I don't think you were out of line btw. Just worded incorrectly
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Original post by Ayesha.Tabassam95
Lol you are the pretty Asian kind I think.. I'm the ugly south Asian kind :'(((


Another maid Marian :rolleyes:

If you're gonna say you're ugly, then just say you're ugly, leave the south Asian part of it.

Original post by Mastermind007
I'm aware of what you said. You imply multiple times that it is because you're South Asian (the ugly kind of Asian apparently) that you are unattractive. My comment stands.


Ditto


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Original post by de_monies
Yeah, but it's meant to be unedited :biggrin: And I put one up a while ago, but here's me again I guess...

Same kinda setting

Fair enough I guess. I guess wording things correctly plays a big part in getting your message across, whoever is saying it :smile: I don't think you were out of line btw. Just worded incorrectly


Well I don't want to kill anyone.. I like your room btw :smile:

Original post by Mastermind007
I'm sorry if this offended you


Original post by Mastermind007
India and I have a picture in my profile (for now...).




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:cry2: its okay. Sorry I about what i said earlier.
I'll check it out :colone:

Urghh..
Original post by Ayesha.Tabassam95
Well I don't want to kill anyone.. I like your room btw :smile:







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:cry2: its okay. Sorry I about what i said earlier.
I'll check it out :colone:

Urghh..


Thanks :smile: Needs cleaning though and like I said before, you just need confidence! Honestly, you look absolutely fine!
Original post by Splenge007
Another maid Marian :rolleyes:

If you're gonna say you're ugly, then just say you're ugly, leave the south Asian part of it.



Ditto


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Whatever :rolleyes:
:smile:
Original post by Ayesha.Tabassam95
Well I don't want to kill anyone.. I like your room btw :smile:







Posted from TSR Mobile

:cry2: its okay. Sorry I about what i said earlier.
I'll check it out :colone:

Urghh..


I take back the Marian comment, at least you had the balls to upload a picture.

You look fine! Seems like you have good cheek bones, too
Original post by Ayesha.Tabassam95

Urghh..


No need to be self conscious, you're pretty.
Original post by Tha Realest
Did it hurt when you fell from heaven ?

Haha thank you I guess :smile:
Original post by Splenge007
I take back the Marian comment, at least you had the balls to upload a picture.

You look fine! Seems like you have good cheek bones, too


Lol. I'm offended Marian is probably a guy :tongue:

Aye see my point exactly I look fine and that's my best photo!!
I dont want compliments or anything. Just to prove my point I'm ugly :frown:
Original post by addylad
By the way, it looks like the girl behind you is sniffing your hat.

Haha I didn't realise that until now
Original post by Ayesha.Tabassam95
Wow I love your hair!!! You're so pretty as well :smile:


Original post by kath_igidbashian
Really love your hair!!!


Aw thank you both :colondollar:
Original post by Ayesha.Tabassam95
Lol. I'm offended Marian is probably a guy :tongue:

Aye see my point exactly I look fine and that's my best photo!!
I dont want compliments or anything. Just to prove my point I'm ugly :frown:


:confused:
Original post by Ayesha.Tabassam95
Lol. I'm offended Marian is probably a guy :tongue:

Aye see my point exactly I look fine and that's my best photo!!
I dont want compliments or anything. Just to prove my point I'm ugly :frown:


Yeah, you're right, you're ugly.

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Original post by de_monies
:confused:


Lol I should look pretty.. But I don't!

Original post by Splenge007
Yeah, you're right, you're ugly.

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And thank you for finally being honest!!!! :biggrin:

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