Keep rejecting offers waiting for the right girl - getting nowhere, should I settle?

WHY, WHY would you reject offers when there are people like me who've never had offers from any girls? (23 year old virgin, 0 gfs, 0 kisses)

I think you should take up the offer of some of the girls. Life at a young age is about getting as much experience with relationships and the opposite sex as possible. You don't want to wait and wait until 'the right girl' because a) that girl may not even be right b) you will feel like you wasted your youth not getting enough sexual experience.

Oh for goodness sake.

OP, if you want to sleep around and have unsuccesful relationships, go ahead. But if you would rather wait for your girl, who probably is out there, I'd recommend you do that. I don't think you'll regret it. You seem sensible enough to know life isn't about fooling around and getting as much sex as you can whilst it's offered.

yes it is. if it's offered to you on a plate, you should take it every time. then again its no surprise i say that when i am a 23 year old virgin.

WHY, WHY would you reject offers when there are people like me who've never had offers from any girls? (23 year old virgin, 0 gfs, 0 kisses)

I think you should take up the offer of some of the girls. Life at a young age is about getting as much experience with relationships and the opposite sex as possible. You don't want to wait and wait until 'the right girl' because a) that girl may not even be right b) you will feel like you wasted your youth not getting enough sexual experience.

Someone take Bassets to Amsterdam and get him a hooker so he can finally realize loosing his virginity won't solve his problems.

i think losing my virginity on its own wont solve problems.

what i'm saying is if i had sex once, and thats it, that wouldnt solve anything. but if suddenly tomorrow i got offered sex from a girl, who wanted sex from me again and again. my confidence goes up. then i get to know one of her friends, who i end up having sex with too, and its a spiralling effect of having sex with lots of girls and my confidence goes through the roof. THAT will solve my problems.

do you see the difference? the first situation, i have sex once and it solves nothing. the second instance, i have sex, i become more confident, get to know more girls and its a spiralling effect of more sex and more confidence.

i truly believe if a girl gives me the chance to have sex with her, i will feel so much better.

First of all let go of all your creepy fantasies , no girl is going to knock on your door whilst your busy bashing and ask to join in .

So in other words you want to become successful with women ? Well that's a completely different matter my friend , once your succesful in life you will attract girls way more easily and some of these encounters may lead to sex.

As you like to go on about all over TSR " You have no friends , no social life , people perceive you IRL as a creep " Its going to be immensely hard to loose your virginity in a situation like yours , stop being a little bitch and wallowing in self pity. Eradicate each problem , develop yourself into the best possible version and your life will become much better , that I promise .

sadly its too late for change. i'm in my final year of university, half way through the first term. its not like i'm a fresher just beginning the whole university experience. there is little opportunity to get a social life now. besides, if i focus a lot of effort on socialising, i will probably screw up my degree (i'm on track for a 2:2 despite putting in a lot of effort).

another problem is socialising makes me tired and weary. it makes me exhausted and its not relaxing. after a short length of time socialising, i feel like going back to my room and lying on my bed. i must prefer being alone.

sadly its too late for change. i'm in my final year of university, half way through the first term. its not like i'm a fresher just beginning the whole university experience. there is little opportunity to get a social life now. besides, if i focus a lot of effort on socialising, i will probably screw up my degree (i'm on track for a 2:2 despite putting in a lot of effort).

another problem is socialising makes me tired and weary. it makes me exhausted and its not relaxing. after a short length of time socialising, i feel like going back to my room and lying on my bed. i must prefer being alone.