Starting to hate women.

It's not his first relationship. I did think he was a little odd in some ways when we first met, but I also found those traits a bit endearing. He's a kind of funny mix of awkwardness and confidence, and the fact that he perceives the world quite differently to me makes us a good pair in some ways.



That sucks My boyfriend is really his own person, but his family and friends accept him for who he is, with all his quirks and eccentricities. He's quite personable, though at times he says things that can seem harsh. He does work on that and I think people, for the most part, do try to give others the benefit of the doubt.



What about friends? I think the best way to meet potential partners is through friends and work. Do you work/study? Do you hobbies or interests that would connect you with like-minded people?

Boy, I have never encountered this acceptance anywhere. Pretty much everyone I told just avoided me.

what are those groups like? what happens in them? and wow, 40 year old virgin, how the hell do you cope that long without sex?

in your first post, you should state your age (31) so people have an idea. most people could think you're only some 18 year old kid.

I think it helped that he did very well at school and university, and is very good at what he does for work. Also, he went to a public school and comes from a posh family, and posh people tend to be nutters and amiable eccentrics anyway, so that might have increased the level of acceptance.



That's disappointing, you definitely seem intelligent and insightful about your own mind... please don't give up on women or on having a career. I hope that's not hopelessly patronising advice, but you're clearly a clever chap so I can only imagine you would be awfully unfulfilled if you don't just push past that discomfort zone and get into it (whatever it is, whether study or work)

lol im not 31 im 21.

Erm they just meet up in the pub and talk and stuff. I stopped going because I didn't fit in with them. Can you believe that? Didn't even fit in with other autistic people.

I dunno, maybe they cried themselves to sleep every night?

I don't blame you, hate them if it makes you feel better. You'll get over it once you let it out enough, just don't resort to assault.

you said in a past post you were 31. whats the big issue then? you're still young. do you go to uni?

you said in a past post you were 31. whats the big issue then? you're still young. do you go to uni?

Mass shooting?

Mass shooting?

Well observed.
Is this from the Sex and the City form of clinical psychology or more Friends based

Probably not a good idea

Why not? I can't see any negatives.

Why not? I can't see any negatives.

I said that so people wouldn't give me the "you're still young" line. Ironically they still did. Sure I may be young but what will be different in 10 years? Why would I be likely to get a gf in the next 10 years if I didn't in he last 10 years. My future plans is to study form home for an engineering degree so won't meet girls for the next 3 to 6 years guaranteed, then I want to get a job in engineering, there are very few women compared to men in engineering. I've thought about it and I'm not likely to ever meet a sizeable amount of women ever again in my life. I may as well be in prison.

Why not? I can't see any negatives.

That's disappointing, you definitely seem intelligent and insightful about your own mind... please don't give up on women or on having a career. I hope that's not hopelessly patronising advice, but you're clearly a clever chap so I can only imagine you would be awfully unfulfilled if you don't just push past that discomfort zone and get into it (whatever it is, whether study or work)

All my life I've been rejected by girls purely for being socially awkward (I have autism) and I'm finding it really hard not to hate them. Of course hate is wrong because it's obviously my fault not theirs why I'm unloved and I am not entitled to women but as time goes on I'm finding it so hard to fight my feelings of hatred for them because hate is so easy and in some ways comforting (your shifting the blame)

I find the hate seeping out via me getting angry at women, being rude to women, finding any reason to put them down and of course making misogynistic rage threads. I know it's wrong but I just can't help it. What should I do?

I already look good, I don't want a golddigger, may as well just hire a hooker.

It is much easier to study and do well in uni if you have a good social life. Anti-social autistic nerds (prior to contrary belief) usually lack motivation by the time they get to uni and stop putting effort in. It's a shame as many such people have very high IQs.