62% of women have rape fantasies?!! ladies , care to explain?

How ironic, can't say I'm surprised. I think I remember reading this somewhere a while a go too.

again, why are women so obsessed with being dominated ?

Humans are not just creatures of instinct though, they are also a product of their environment. So yes a cave-dweller would be completely different to Maid Marian.

A lot of women like the idea of being 'forced' to do something an illusory sense. In their fantasy, they're the ones really in control because they're playing it out (and consenting) in their minds. This is not the same as being raped in real life.

There's probably an abundance of literature out there to answer that question.

I now have a question, do you boys ever fantasize about domination?

Definitely this. There is a world of a difference between the two. To answer the question, yes I have, acted on it once.

you didn't answer my question.


are you gonna make me ask again ?

Because dominance is attractive...

Ok I admit I have had slightly rapey fantasies

A man needs verbal confirmation and permission in order to make physical contact with a female and vice versa. You have disturbing fantasies on par with bestiality although I wouldn't put it past you.

Why? Her counter criticisms were valid from what I have read.

I didn't know the mayor was into that fetish. You could definitely sell your story to thesun or something for a fair amount.

Oh dear.

1) 'using a fantasy checklist that included sytematic prompts and checklists'. So the authors have defined what they themselves arbitrarily believe is the scientific definition of 'rape fantasy'. So the first error is therefore the non-scientifically proven and peer accepted definition of rape fantasy.

2) The study is very stratified in that it is only valid for university undergraduates. It therefore does not by any means whatsoever represent the population distribution of a large town let alone extrapolated to be valid for a country or the world.

3) It is likely that 2) above is further constrained by the study participants being voluntary participants and therefore again not representative of a normal population distribution.

4) 'systematic prompts and checklists'. i.e. another way of saying multiple choice. The respondents must therefore answer within strict constraints. It is likely that the answers will force the respondent away from the middle ground which again is a commin failing of such techniques.

I really should not go on as there is absolutely no point in arguing with results so flawed as to be worthless.

Think of it like how people get a kick out of FPS games, like CoD or whatever, but would ****ing crap themselves if you dropped them in an actual warzone. It's not something people actually want to do.

When you imagine yourself a hero in a game, you still imagine yourself as this strong, fast, invincible John McClane-esque figure. In reality, you're a pathetic nobody who'll would be torn apart in minutes.

Likewise, when women imagine rape fantasies, it's from a very safe vantage point. There's never any real danger to them, they just like the idea of rough "involuntary" sex that's given to them forcefully. They still imagine it feeling good. They still imagine wanting more. Real rape is nothing like the fantasy. Real rape is terrifying, dangerous and traumatic. No one wants that. Remember, when a women imagines this scenario, she still has the option to say no. She is in control of the fantasy and can chose to stop imagining at any point. So it's never a violation of her in the way true rape is.

Hope I helped.