62% of women have rape fantasies?!! ladies , care to explain?

I have a feeling this was either sarcastic (in which case, well done researchers! ) or confusion leading to the mindless, unfortunate confusion between the words Fantasy and Nightmare.

You realise some girls do actually have rape fantasies, right? Just because you don't like it doesn't mean you should dismiss them completely.

Firstly, forgive me if I don't see how 62% is "some girls". Secondly, speak for yourself, wait are you even a girl?

Think of it like how people get a kick out of FPS games, like CoD or whatever, but would ****ing crap themselves if you dropped them in an actual warzone. It's not something people actually want to do.

When you imagine yourself a hero in a game, you still imagine yourself as this strong, fast, invincible John McClane-esque figure. In reality, you're a pathetic nobody who'll would be torn apart in minutes.

Likewise, when women imagine rape fantasies, it's from a very safe vantage point. There's never any real danger to them, they just like the idea of rough "involuntary" sex that's given to them forcefully. They still imagine it feeling good. They still imagine wanting more. Real rape is nothing like the fantasy. Real rape is terrifying, dangerous and traumatic. No one wants that. Remember, when a women imagines this scenario, she still has the option to say no. She is in control of the fantasy and can chose to stop imagining at any point. So it's never a violation of her in the way true rape is.

Hope I helped.

yeah but those guys play the games to kill other virtual guys, not to GET killed. they don't dream about getting a headshot and then teabagged, they want to win at a competitive video game. and they certainly don't masturbate over it, whether killing or getting killed. so why do most women dream about being raped, dominated and humiliated ?

but anyway, would that make it ok for guys to fantasize about raping women? i mean, it's just a fantasy , right? if you don't actually put it in practice? now remember, the key word is fantasy!

Of course, they can imagine the other side of a rape fantasy, but it's important to separate that from actual fantasising about actual rape. The shocking-ness of the transposition you just made underlines how much the female "rape fantasy" is a misnomer.

I would say fantasising about committing actual rape is probably indicative of psychopathy.

i would love to be a fly on the wall when a guy tells his girlfriend he fantasizes about raping women. now remember, the key word is fantasy. how do you think that would go?

yeah but those guys play the games to kill other virtual guys, not to GET killed. they don't dream about getting a headshot and then teabagged, they want to win at a competitive video game. and they certainly don't masturbate over it, whether killing or getting killed. so why do most women dream about being raped, dominated and humiliated ?

but anyway, would that make it ok for guys to fantasize about raping women? i mean, it's just a fantasy , right? if you don't actually put it in practice? now remember, the key word is fantasy!

Is this supposed to get a rise out of me? I have no problem with anyone fantasizing about anything the hell they want, as long as they can separate it from reality. I'm not sure why you think I would. What goes on in your head is your business.

how do you think the vast majority of women would react to their partner telling them he fantasizes about raping women?

I'm really confused now? You write in a very weird way.

This fantasy thing is a bit hard to believe, otherwise a lot of people need psychiatric treatment.

Definitely this. There is a world of a difference between the two. To answer the question, yes I have, acted on it once.