Face, looks, money and status is what attracts us. Not personality.

Personality is part of 'looks'. Looks are part of personality. Status is part of personality, whatever exactly 'status' means.

Personally I like confidence, humour and intelligence in a man, plus he shouldn't look like the cat just dragged him in and it helps if he has clean hair, teeth and fingernails. Oh and definitely not bad breath or a drinking habit.

I'm tired of people saying that personality is the priority, that's just not true, that is lying.

I agree with everything that's said in this video, looks matter, Face and LMS:



The main problem is that the average female is vastly more attractive to the opposite sex than the average male.

Very attractive, now her male equivalent:



Very unattractive.

@Bold part, this is what I don't like about us women.

Your threshold for not looking like a cat was just dragged in is disproportionately high.

Pretend this man has all of the personal qualities that you describe. Does he meet your physical threshold? No? then he is equivalent to a cat being dragged in, and that is your average male...

I'd actually say the guy is better looking than the girl there.

Well, he seems sweet, but he's a bit young for me. I would nearly always want the man to be at least a few years older, unless he was a really amazing guy.

Great, now look at this, would you reject him?:

http://www.moviestarspicture.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Leonardo_DiCaprio_young_photo.jpg

realistically I'm guessing not. Yet he appears similar aged to the other guy. His facial aesthetics and eyes make up for his young look. FACE. Therefore, the other guy I posted is clearly 'cat dragged in' tier, he is so plain looking, he doesn't make you/I feel special, our standards are inflated.

We don't really think about it, but the power of a handsome face is huge.

Think about it for a while and think about the pain men have to endure. I don't hate guys, I hate my biological receptors.

Leonardo's hairstyle is really bad in that photo.

Yes she is being gang-banged whilst the guy is a 27 year old virgin (I know him).

That's what I hate about sex, I feel pain for my older cousin who is also a virgin, and my future male children (if any).

Us girls have it a lot easier, makeup is also pretty big in all this.

Great, now look at this, would you reject him?:

http://www.moviestarspicture.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Leonardo_DiCaprio_young_photo.jpg

realistically I'm guessing not. Yet he appears similar aged to the other guy. His facial aesthetics and eyes make up for his young look. FACE. Therefore, the other guy I posted is clearly 'cat dragged in' tier, he is so plain looking, he doesn't make you/I feel special, our standards are inflated.

We don't really think about it, but the power of a handsome face is huge.

Think about it for a while and think about the pain men have to endure. I don't hate guys, I hate my biological receptors.

Yes and he looks very fake in that picture, it doesn't exactly ooze sincerity. He's much better looking now he's older and I loved his more recent movies.

Out of interest, are you a male?

I think we all know that girls can get sex much more easily than guys. I agree also that looks and status matter a huge amount to women. They like personality, but only in the sense that they like the personality of a high status, confident, dominant, good looking male. Being simply a nice friendly guy won't cut it unless you're good looking. Girls will be friendly to you, but ask these guys how many girls are attracted to him in a sexual way and it will be zero.

Wealth matters less than you think. If you're nerdy and don't look good, being rich won't change much. Going into a high paying job like banking to earn 100-200k a year isn't going to magically get you women if you failed with them to begin with. It will give you disposable income to spend on prostitutes and escorts, but that's about it. Besides, most of your time will be consumed by your work so you won't get much chance to meet women.

In your opinion, what can the average guy do to become one of those guys who gets a lot of sex?

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Seriously? become this through surgery: http://www.i.thefashionisto.com/2012/7/brian-shimansky1.jpg

My sex drive is hard to trigger, I rarely have sex and when I do it is with the best looking guys. I know I sound vain, but as i previously said, I have my sexual receptors, it's unfair on average guys.