Um no, speak for yourself, OP. This is not a black or white issue. I BELIEVE that everyone is attractive in their own way because I've felt it myself. I've actually been attracted to guys who are normally considered ugly by many people because of other reasons like personality, intelligence etc. Seriously. I've been surprised myself but I know it's true. I, being a girl for one, am not here to spread charity by telling people,"oh you're beautiful, don't care about what others say! Sugar, candies and everything nice!" but I say it because I think it's true. It's a very complex topic, actually; attraction does not depend on one sole factor. It is different for every single person. I will agree that there are people who come across as very attractive to most people but that doesn't mean others who don't fit in the general category of "attractive" are not. I guess it's different for everyone; some people value looks a lot and others value other things. So please refrain from saying "us girls lie". I wouldn't want to be included. I've dated ugly guys (according to all my friends and their friends, too, in fact). So, surprise surprise, ugly people don't die alone!