Lost my 'soulmate'

I assume you are a hetrosexual couple

If she/he cut contact altogether she probably really liked you and was waiting for years for you to make a move or tell him/her that you liked him/her but couldn't take it anymore. It sounds like you could possibly still have something with him/her if you tell them how you feel before it's too late.

Great connections are not easy, what life is all about. Try everything to re-connect. I assume you are a hetrosexual couple

Lol at how irrelevant this is

Sorry I should have made that clearer. I'm a girl, he's a boy. This isn't my account on here, just a friend's who couldn't give me any advice on the matter so told me to write on here instead!

Anyway, he knows I like him. A lot. But we can't be together..... It hurts like hell that we can't but I accepted it and just got on with how things were because I didn't want to lose that sort of connection with someone, even if we could only be friends. He accepted it too, until now it seems. I guess he got fed up with the situation or something Even though we werent together as a couple, he was still always there. Now I just have this lonliness that won't go away

Why not, you're not cousins are you?

Hahaha, noooo nothing like that!!

Why not, you're not cousins are you?

Why not then? I'm just interested as I feel similar about a friend, you don't have to be too detailed.

Did you like him a lot, but he didn't feel the same about you? Or he was in a relationship with someone else? I was in this situation before, we had a lot of arguments before we decided we should end it.

Sorry I should have made that clearer. I'm a girl, he's a boy. This isn't my account on here, just a friend's who couldn't give me any advice on the matter so told me to write on here instead!

Anyway, he knows I like him. A lot. But we can't be together..... It hurts like hell that we can't but I accepted it and just got on with how things were because I didn't want to lose that sort of connection with someone, even if we could only be friends. He accepted it too, until now it seems. I guess he got fed up with the situation or something Even though we werent together as a couple, he was still always there. Now I just have this lonliness that won't go away

I don't understand why you two can't see each other , is it cause of distance ?

McFlurry: It was too complicated. We had discussed being together but agreed it wouldn't work just because of the circumstances. We live far apart, we have totally different lives so visiting isn't even much of an option. We used to see each other all the time, but then life/growing up happened lol, and we couldn't anymore. But we still made the effort to talk everyday. The thing is, we both agreed it was best not to get into a relationship regardless of how much we both wanted to, but now he seems to given up on me altogther. Him cutting off contact was so sudden, there was no explanation for it, nothing had changed.

I don't know whether your first comment there is actually sarcastic or not...
I left out the details because I didn't think it was important, we aren't in a relationship, we could have been 2 hetero male or female friends, it doesn't really matter. However the responses seemed to imply that this was important so I thought I'd just clarify!

Anyway, I don't think it's important here why we're not together in a relationship sense, because the fact is we both agreed to not get into one regardless of how we felt. This had been the case for years, so what is troubling and upsetting me is why he suddenly, drastically changed and decided to cut me out of his life forever. He wont answer my calls or messages, this happened a week ago so I've given up trying to change his mind now. But I feel absolutely awful, that's why I'm on here asking how I can feel better about losing such a close friend.

Well if you're going to be confrontational to someone trying to help you, you'd better try figure things out for yourself since you are so smart.

Or perhaps not since you mis-read my 1st statement, for your edification I said - words to the effect " For what I have to say ". * what I... I.... I * .

Get it ? It applies only to me and not to anything else.

Anyway thanks, good bye and good luck, with your attitude I think you may need it.

Don't bother reply cause I won't be around. list.... ignore, you.... yeah ?

Well if you're going to be confrontational to someone trying to help you, you'd better try figure things out for yourself since you are so smart.

Or perhaps not since you mis-read my 1st statement, for your edification I said - words to the effect " For what I have to say ". * what I... I.... I * .

Get it ? It applies only to me and not to anything else.

Anyway thanks, good bye and good luck, with your attitude I think you may need it.

Don't bother reply cause I won't be around. list.... ignore, you.... yeah ?

Well if you're going to be confrontational to someone trying to help you, you'd better try figure things out for yourself since you are so smart.

Or perhaps not since you mis-read my 1st statement, for your edification I said - words to the effect " For what I have to say ". * what I... I.... I * .

Get it ? It applies only to me and not to anything else.

Anyway thanks, good bye and good luck, with your attitude I think you may need it.

Don't bother reply cause I won't be around. list.... ignore, you.... yeah ?

Well nice to know you are regular BG couple cause what I say doesn't apply to LBGT - they have their own ways as far as I am concerned.