I just threw a plate at my dad. In shock.

I'm just in total shock right now. I'm shaking and can't stop crying. Me and my dad were having an argument, over what doesn't seem important now. If there's anyone that knows how to make me angry it's my dad, anyway he started yelling and I was holding a fork and plate, and I just threw it across the room and it hit him. It smashed but didn't hurt him.

Immediately afterwards I just couldn't believe what I'd done. I sat there just shocked at what I'd done and just kept saying I'm sorry, I don't know why I did that. My dad got angry, and both my parents walked out. I went outside to sit in my car for an hour. Came back in, my parents hugged me and said it was okay. But it's not okay. I threw a plate at someone in anger, and I had no control over it, it just happened like someone took over me. I'm really scared and feel really ashamed. I feel awful. I just want to run away and stay somewhere else.

I don't know why I'm posting this. I'm just in total shock that I did something like that. I get angry sometimes, sure, but nothing like that. I'm worried, and feel so ashamed.

It's nothing to worry about. He didn't get hurt so move on.
People get angry all the time and act out of instinct.
No one was hurt, but you should still try to have a bit more self control.

Move on and learn from what you did and don't repeat it.

(I've done pretty bad things to my mum when i was upset too )

are you asian?

are you asian?

Yeah, thanks. I just feel like no-one else will forget this now and I'm just so ashamed :/ I know I'm not the only one that has done anything out of anger, it's not in my character which is why I'm a bit shocked!

are you asian?

Tbh font listen to people saying, it's okay, move on, because it is not ok. He is your father, if he is making you angry think how you make him angry as well. First, he is older than you, second, he is your father! Omg , people really forgot about importance of the family. If you feel bad, then it is a good sign, you have respect left inside you, now you need not to make him angry for few weeks, and tell him your achievements, (your good grades, how you helped someone, donated blood etc) , so he can be proud of you.

If they've forgiven you then you're set to move on but you really can't let something like that happen again. Imagine if you did that to a stranger; get some help with the anger if you need and don't worry, your parents love you regardless.



lol if she were Asian and her parents like mine, she wouldn't have made it to the car...

Tbh font listen to people saying, it's okay, move on, because it is not ok. He is your father, if he is making you angry think how you make him angry as well. First, he is older than you, second, he is your father! Omg , people really forgot about importance of the family. If you feel bad, then it is a good sign, you have respect left inside you, now you need not to make him angry for few weeks, and tell him your achievements, (your good grades, how you helped someone, donated blood etc) , so he can be proud of you.

oh my god flabbyjoe you can't just ask people if they're asian

I'm just in total shock right now. I'm shaking and can't stop crying. Me and my dad were having an argument, over what doesn't seem important now. If there's anyone that knows how to make me angry it's my dad, anyway he started yelling and I was holding a fork and plate, and I just threw it across the room and it hit him. It smashed but didn't hurt him.

Immediately afterwards I just couldn't believe what I'd done. I sat there just shocked at what I'd done and just kept saying I'm sorry, I don't know why I did that. My dad got angry, and both my parents walked out. I went outside to sit in my car for an hour. Came back in, my parents hugged me and said it was okay. But it's not okay. I threw a plate at someone in anger, and I had no control over it, it just happened like someone took over me. I'm really scared and feel really ashamed. I feel awful. I just want to run away and stay somewhere else.

I don't know why I'm posting this. I'm just in total shock that I did something like that. I get angry sometimes, sure, but nothing like that. I'm worried, and feel so ashamed.

What was the argument about?

If it was something trivial then that reaction is quite concerning. Have you had anger issues before? To do that to your own parent is pretty shocking if I'm honest and if I were your dad I would not be hugging you after...

Tbh font listen to people saying, it's okay, move on, because it is not ok. He is your father, if he is making you angry think how you make him angry as well. First, he is older than you, second, he is your father! Omg , people really forgot about importance of the family. If you feel bad, then it is a good sign, you have respect left inside you, now you need not to make him angry for few weeks, and tell him your achievements, (your good grades, how you helped someone, donated blood etc) , so he can be proud of you.

If they've forgiven you then you're set to move on but you really can't let something like that happen again. Imagine if you did that to a stranger; get some help with the anger if you need and don't worry, your parents love you regardless.



lol if she were Asian and her parents like mine, she wouldn't have made it to the car...