I'm texting her once of a morning when free (e.g. today) saying hey it's a beautiful day, do you wanna hang out and chill?
Then again of an evening, Hey how's it going? or Hey hope you've had a great day, thinking of you, good night
' something like that
the replies I', getting are
'Hi'
'Good night'
anything to do with us meeting up, nothing
The one time we
did, it was 'I'm going that way anyway so whatever'
I know I have issues but I also think that, aside from exam sress which I wanted to support her with (and did by not pursuing her through revision/exam weeks except to ask her how she was/was getting on)
...aside from exam stress, she's being unreasonable. And yes I've gone to an unreasonable conclusion too. But I'm very frustrated both by her coldness, and by the fact I can't help her and feel useless as a partner for her right now.