How do Muslim girls deal with their natural sexual desires?

Yes- or I will most definitely end up committing zina. I know that, so I have to.

Am a muslim guy who has similar issues but masterbation is addictive. From one muslim to another u can get married at 20, most muslim women do get married around that age.

Fair enough, I may have a bigger problem as I'm literally dying to have sex (I'm 20 years old). I've had a lot of times growing up that have given me the opportunity to do so, but my religious beliefs have led me to refuse. Have any other Muslim ever experienced any issues regarding sexual desires? How do you deal with them if you don't masturbate? I'm genuinely interested.

What's stopping you from masturbating?

Break free from the confines of your narrow minded parents and do what you want. Masturbation is a private activity and not something that has to be shared or revealed to anyone.

And while we're at it, let's admit it. You're not a Muslim. Your religion is forced and inherited. Break free and be who you are and do what you want to do.

I'm Muslim and have never been able to discuss this with Muslim girl friends (all prudes) so I wanted to get some of the opinions other Muslims/Non-Muslims have on this. I'm approached by guys often and always tell them that I'm not interested etc. BUT I AM. I would kill to be able to have a relationship with a guy, it's natural. I know Islam forbids premarital sex and adhere to that but I'd like to know how other girls have struggled with this? We aren't marrying as early as people used to so more challenges and frustration is experienced. Masturbation is haram too (I can't disallow myself this either as I will be likely to sin). Most Muslim girls are too embarrassed to discuss this or even acknowledge the fact that they are attracted to the opposite sex and may have "sinful thoughts".

Fair enough, I may have a bigger problem as I'm literally dying to have sex (I'm 20 years old). I've had a lot of times growing up that have given me the opportunity to do so, but my religious beliefs have led me to refuse. Have any other Muslim ever experienced any issues regarding sexual desires? How do you deal with them if you don't masturbate? I'm genuinely interested.

Is that supposed to mean that your prudish Muslim girl friends have none of these 'natural sexual desires' that you are bemoaning and ailing of? Or is that meant as a passive-aggressive insult to your prudish Muslim girl friends because you hold them in contempt for something they cannot help? Just like you can't help being massively horny, they can't help being massively prudish. If they were horny, they wouldn't mind discussing these things with you. It isn't their fault that you're horny and they're not.
If you crave sex so much and want to do it at any cost and the halal way, how about just simply getting married and doing it? That seems to be your only option right now. You can't have your cake and eat it.
And fyi, it isn't only Muslims who abstain from the unseemly acts of immorality that you seem to be suggesting are something everybody should be allowed to do with no fear. Anybody with a sense of perspective will abstain.

I'm Muslim and have never been able to discuss this with Muslim girl friends (all prudes) so I wanted to get some of the opinions other Muslims/Non-Muslims have on this. I'm approached by guys often and always tell them that I'm not interested etc. BUT I AM. I would kill to be able to have a relationship with a guy, it's natural. I know Islam forbids premarital sex and adhere to that but I'd like to know how other girls have struggled with this? We aren't marrying as early as people used to so more challenges and frustration is experienced. Masturbation is haram too (I can't disallow myself this either as I will be likely to sin). Most Muslim girls are too embarrassed to discuss this or even acknowledge the fact that they are attracted to the opposite sex and may have "sinful thoughts".

Fair enough, I may have a bigger problem as I'm literally dying to have sex (I'm 20 years old). I've had a lot of times growing up that have given me the opportunity to do so, but my religious beliefs have led me to refuse. Have any other Muslim ever experienced any issues regarding sexual desires? How do you deal with them if you don't masturbate? I'm genuinely interested.

Is that supposed to mean that your prudish Muslim girl friends have none of these 'natural sexual desires' that you are bemoaning and ailing of? Or is that meant as a passive-aggressive insult to your prudish Muslim girl friends because you hold them in contempt for something they cannot help? Just like you can't help being massively horny, they can't help being massively prudish. If they were horny, they wouldn't mind discussing these things with you. It isn't their fault that you're horny and they're not.
If you crave sex so much and want to do it at any cost and the halal way, how about just simply getting married and doing it? That seems to be your only option right now. You can't have your cake and eat it.
And fyi, it isn't only Muslims who abstain from the unseemly acts of immorality that you seem to be suggesting are something everybody should be allowed to do with no fear. Anybody with a sense of perspective will abstain.

This might be beyond your limits to imagine but have you ever considered that some people are just sexually incompatible? If marriage is so important (which is certainly is in most faiths), then shouldn't it make sense to exhaust all avenues of finding out everything about your potential partner in order to make a correct decision and avoid a divorce. I'm not saying whore yourself out on the street but what's wrong with doing it with a long term boyfriend? Can you give any logical argument against that or just spout dogma?

I've met a ton of Muslims who in their starry-eyed daze have married quite young (often with pressure from parents), then the husband will start battering them. Their parents will even go as far to tell them to just deal with it all to avoid the shame of having a divorced daughter. The ones I met were divorced so I can only imagine how many are trapped in unhappy relationships in fear of disappointing others. It's quite heartbreaking to hear.

This is the same concept.

I'm literally dying to have sex

What is it that gave you the impression that that argument of yours might be beyond my limits to conceive of, comprehend and counteract? I dare say you're aware of the fact that arguments along the lines of 'trying it out and seeing how it works' are in abundance and at no risk of sudden shortage. I don't claim to be an expert on the subject, but studies have shown, if I'm not much in error, that tried and tested relationships stand time not very much longer than untried and untested ones. To judge by a human being's sexual desire whom to spend the rest of one's life with would be a fickle judgement. One's sexuality and sexual wants can hardly be wisely taken to be one's supreme guide. To accept your conclusion one must assume that sexuality and sexual feelings are two things: always right and always of the utmost important. I should think you should not have much difficulty pinpointing the error in that.

I doubt very much that you've met a ton of Muslims in that situation, much less a ton of Muslims in any situation. I won't deny that that situation exists, but I suspect you are stealthily proposing by that statement of yours that it is Islam's teaching of abstinence that fuels such situations. I will deny that and will repeat the of-repeated refutation of such tasteless, outdated allegations: in Islam, a man may not batter his wife, and parents may not force their children into marriage.

I don't see any similarity in either concept. I am bound to add that similarities in these starkly opposing notions will exist for those whose limits of comprehension are not very far off.