Girl masterbation problem
When I masterbate as soon as it starts to feel nice, I orgasm. I really want to enjoy it for a long time, as this is what I see as normal. To start off with it doesn't really feel like anything, after a few minutes it starts to feel ok, then quite good and done. It only really feels nice for about a few seconds till ifs over. But the orgasm is like a reflex and it is impossible to stop. Is there something wrong with me
For men, there's a point at which ejaculation is inevitably going to happen in a few seconds, no matter what happens. You can stop whatever you're doing, become aware that the room is on fire, and it will still happen. In that sense, it's a reflex.
One standard way of looking at sexual response divides it into..
.. arousal - getting turned on
.. plateau - the good time before orgasm that you want to extend
.. orgasm
.. resolution - the return to normal afterwards
What happens if you reduce the stimulation - by going slower or gentler or doing something else that feels good - once you're at the plateau stage?
What happens if you continue to masturbate after coming? Do you orgasm again?
One standard way of looking at sexual response divides it into..
.. arousal - getting turned on
.. plateau - the good time before orgasm that you want to extend
.. orgasm
.. resolution - the return to normal afterwards
What happens if you reduce the stimulation - by going slower or gentler or doing something else that feels good - once you're at the plateau stage?
What happens if you continue to masturbate after coming? Do you orgasm again?
Original post by unprinted
For men, there's a point at which ejaculation is inevitably going to happen in a few seconds, no matter what happens. You can stop whatever you're doing, become aware that the room is on fire, and it will still happen. In that sense, it's a reflex.
One standard way of looking at sexual response divides it into..
.. arousal - getting turned on
.. plateau - the good time before orgasm that you want to extend
.. orgasm
.. resolution - the return to normal afterwards
What happens if you reduce the stimulation - by going slower or gentler or doing something else that feels good - once you're at the plateau stage?
What happens if you continue to masturbate after coming? Do you orgasm again?
One standard way of looking at sexual response divides it into..
.. arousal - getting turned on
.. plateau - the good time before orgasm that you want to extend
.. orgasm
.. resolution - the return to normal afterwards
What happens if you reduce the stimulation - by going slower or gentler or doing something else that feels good - once you're at the plateau stage?
What happens if you continue to masturbate after coming? Do you orgasm again?
Well ill the plateau is only a few seconds and impossible to extend. If I stop touching than I lose all sensation, start again and it's just the same, I want to enjoy like twenty minutes but instead it's just nothing. Also the orgasm isn't that good either, just like a tingle and then contractions. If I'm not concentrating I barely feel anything
So you're not experiencing the sensations you are getting as particularly pleasurable. I wonder if that's a question of practice - new things can take a while to get used to.
Orgasms do vary in intensity, but at least some are usually better than 'barely feeling anything'. Have you experimented with different ways of doing it, including positions for your body, fingers vs toys, exploring fantasies?
Orgasms do vary in intensity, but at least some are usually better than 'barely feeling anything'. Have you experimented with different ways of doing it, including positions for your body, fingers vs toys, exploring fantasies?
Original post by unprinted
So you're not experiencing the sensations you are getting as particularly pleasurable. I wonder if that's a question of practice - new things can take a while to get used to.
Orgasms do vary in intensity, but at least some are usually better than 'barely feeling anything'. Have you experimented with different ways of doing it, including positions for your body, fingers vs toys, exploring fantasies?
Orgasms do vary in intensity, but at least some are usually better than 'barely feeling anything'. Have you experimented with different ways of doing it, including positions for your body, fingers vs toys, exploring fantasies?
The only way I get any sensation is if I rub my clit hood , sometimes tightening my legs helps to speed up getting to feel good bit. I insert fingers at the same time sometimes but to be honest it doesn't make much difference. If I stop rubbing my clit, I lose any sensation.
The orgasm can feel quite nice like it is spreAding through my legs. But it isn't mind blowing and lasts like one second
Everybody is different, don't base your orgasm expectations on porn, these are actors, what you see is the finished product and is made up of countless stop and start takes. Some women can only achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation but length and intensity can vary. Some women can prolong their pleasure by stimulating their nipples, although my ex found she could intensify her orgasm by holding her breath, and she had a noticeably stronger orgasm when her ass was stimulated. Have you tried setting the mood and giving yourself foreplay as it were? The main thing is just to experiment, try new things and most importantly, have fun.
Original post by Anonymous
When I masterbate as soon as it starts to feel nice, I orgasm. I really want to enjoy it for a long time, as this is what I see as normal. To start off with it doesn't really feel like anything, after a few minutes it starts to feel ok, then quite good and done. It only really feels nice for about a few seconds till ifs over. But the orgasm is like a reflex and it is impossible to stop. Is there something wrong with me
nahh ur just enjoying
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