What makes me so 'attractive'?

I know that he loves me, I just struggle to understand why he does.

Matter of opinion not fact though.


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You clearly don't understand the post, I didn't ask for advice on how to be a better girlfriend, my boyfriend has said I'm perfect for him and everything he wants, so I think I'm the best I can be, thanks for your concern though.

I'm struggling to understand it myself.

You seem insecure that you're not a very good girlfriend and feel undeserving of your partner, if you want to feel better about this, do things that make you feel like you are a better girlfriend and more deserving of your partner.

No, I'm not insecure about it I am fine. I wanted to see opinions.

My friend made a joke that got me thinking, she said she doesn't understand why anyone wants to be with me. They get basically nothing they want from the relationship.

Some people like being able to support someone so maybe he doesn't mind if you don't really "give back"?

Then maybe you should be, can list off things you do for him in the relationship? If your friends are noticing it's one-way and you think it's one-way, is that not a problem

Not really, I'm just interested in why he does it, I'm happy with it, I don't want a thing to change

I'd assume your probly from a fairly well off back ground and your probly what most would call fairly attractive. TBH the guy obviously wants to be with you but i highly doubt he is all that happy.. He probably sees it as he's found the girl he wants to be with but he ain't gonna be like this forever. Most people don't brake up because they have stopped loving the person, its just the dynamic of the relationship becomes unbarable. Not having sex with him is like a weapon, you are dangling the carrot as such. The dude has put two ****ing years in. He doesn't want to give in now but if ypu think this poor **** is gonna go another 2years with no sex your having a laugh. Either rethink the idea or get the wedding booked pronto.

I'd assume your probly from a fairly well off back ground and your probly what most would call fairly attractive. TBH the guy obviously wants to be with you but i highly doubt he is all that happy.. He probably sees it as he's found the girl he wants to be with but he ain't gonna be like this forever. Most people don't brake up because they have stopped loving the person, its just the dynamic of the relationship becomes unbarable. Not having sex with him is like a weapon, you are dangling the carrot as such. The dude has put two ****ing years in. He doesn't want to give in now but if ypu think this poor **** is gonna go another 2years with no sex your having a laugh. Either rethink the idea or get the wedding booked pronto.

Why don't you just ask him?

How are we supposed to tell you the reasons why your OWN boyfriend loves you? Only he can tell you that.. If you continue with this behaviour.. a time will most likely come when he gets fed up with it.

lul. I think OP is a male anti-feminist troll. Trying to get away with Poe's Law.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poe's_law

I have, and he says because he loves me, that's it, that's all he says, he does all that because he loves me. Maybe it's enough but I don't understand.

Not everything revolves around sex you know. Just because she doesn't have sex with her boyfriend doesn't mean they don't do anything sexual in the bedroom.

Why can't he go another 2 years with no sex? Sex is not the be all and end all, if he loves her and respects her wishes, he will wait. 2 years, 4 years or 40

Thats strange. My boyfriend usually tells me the reasons why he loves me. Is that what you want to know? I can see how him saying that is insufficient, maybe he just really loves you and cannot explain it?

lul. I think OP is a male anti-feminist troll. Trying to get away with Poe's Law.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poe's_law