Stay at home mums have the hardest job and here's why.

You're absolutely right it's pathetic how people like you dismiss stay at home mums as parasites because they choose to sacrifice themselves everyday for the sake of caring for their own children rather than being selfish and going back to work less than a month after giving birth.

I did answer the question, you didn't like my answer and so chose not to take it

This is just bitchy and rude

You just sound really bitter that you had a tough upbringing and are now moaning that anyone else says anything is hard

It's dramatic, but surely you've seen the bashing stay at home women get on here?

No, you waffled. As always.

Bitchy and rude? For stating the truth? God forbid I don't fall on bended knee and praise those poor, fragile souls who deserve my admiration because they actually haven't lived that much of a difficult life so far.

I didn't have a tough upbringing, thank you very much - I had a brilliant one, because my mother worked hard to give it to me, and I saw how hard she worked in spite of all that worked against her. The latter part of your post doesn't even make any sense.

You did not have a point, and what little nonsense was there I responded to. Perhaps try giving it another read.

There is a big difference in being conscious of payments, and actually having the responsibility of being the one who has to figure out how to pay for them, and go out and earn it, oddly enough.

I see a lot of bashing of everything on here lol. I just chalk it up to ignorant and intolerant nerds who's knowledge only comes from biased internet articles. Don't care too much about other people's opinions unless its something important that will have an affect on me. Like when I'm asking for advice.

Why is it ridiculous?

I believe that a full-time job with no pay where you're are responsible for the life and psychological development of someone else is the hardest job in the world. Come at me, bro!

You're absolutely wrong. "Stay at home mums" are not sacrificing anything, the vast majority of parents want to care and tend for their child - where working becomes a burden and interferes with this. New parents should return to work as soon as possible to further contribute to the taxes that will pay for their children's education and medicine. Additionally, stay at home mums don't set a proper example for what their child should be trying to attain as a productive member of society.

To try and say stay at home mums have it harder than mums who go to work is just ridiculous. They do everything a stay at home mum does and still manage to go to work as well.

I don't think you can say a certain job is the hardest, it depends on the person, but I think this is a response to the criticism that stay at home mums

It seems like you're just posting to save face and keep up appearances now, I mean come on dude.


Speaking about reading comprehension I have mentioned in countless posts above there's a mutual spousal understanding in place in the household -it's time you've pulled out the ol' reading glasses friend. The bread winner and the stay-at-home partner both agree to uphold their end of the bargain. Into whose bank account the income falls into has no bearing on the outcome, that is, they both worry about the bills, they both care for the household spendings and they both discuss payment plans.

No I didn't. I explained it. But you stating that doesn't make it true. You're just really bitchy with anyone who disagrees with you

See that's what I'm saying, you're being rude, and insisting because you had something you think was difficult, everyone else's problems are minor in comparison. Stop it

Then what exactly is the problem here

It seems like you're just posting to save face and keep up appearances now, I mean come on dude.

I think its more like, you've already been proven wrong on your OP. So theres no need to keep replying anymore.

The majority of your posts consist of insults and bashing other people's life choices and circumstances so you're not giving much to reply to lmao.

You didn't explain, other posters even pointed out that all you managed to do was mindlessly repeat yourself over and over.

I'm not "bitchy", to use your word - but I don't engage in pleasantries with people who champion idiotic arguments and have given me great cause to not take them seriously. Your posts are circular, hypocritical, ignore the point entirely, tend to revolve either around yourself or your fragile ego that is easily slighted to a worrying degree, and you have a tendency to throw childlike tantrums when someone is saying something you dislike. You pretend that you don't judge people by your own standards and think yourself better than them for it, and then protest at unfair judgements of women as a whole.

You really, really need to get a grip. If you're taking offence because I disagree that being a stay-at-home mother is a difficult occupation (in the OP's words, "the hardest") then you've led a sheltered life thus far.

This coming from someone who punctuates his sentences with lol and lmao? Let's not forget your penchant for posting outdated memes too...


Can you quote the part where you proved me wrong? I need a good chuckle that's all.

You're absolutely right it's pathetic how people like you dismiss stay at home mums as parasites because they choose to sacrifice themselves everyday for the sake of caring for their own children rather than being selfish and going back to work less than a month after giving birth. .

Your ignorance is worrying.



And now you're ignoring what I've said in its entirety, with a pleasant air of misguided pompousness. Because apparently consciousness of something is an acceptable (and "equally difficult") substitute for actually shouldering its burden.

Well, as someone else has already highlighted, you've made quite enough of a fool of yourself, so I'll leave it here.

Both parents shoulder the responsibility the fact that one is the bread winner doesn't make the stay at home parent a scrounger because they are a TEAM, they agreed to their living circumstance. Why else would someone pay for their spouse to stay-at-home if they weren't happy?