Why are gay guys so hot?

I did not anywhere said 'ALL'.

that really isn't necessary

There might be not saying there aren't. but the gay guys who I have happen to come across have been hot. So just stating my opinion.

I still fail to understand why you're asking this question and this still seems like a mild fetishisation. You can't qualify a generalisation by insisting it doesn't apply to everyone you're stereotyping.

But of course you'd usually come across attractive homosexual men. What are the chances you'd often talk to unattractive homosexual men? [[Bonus: What are the chances a homosexual man would tell you they're homosexual anyway?]]

What is wrong with asking this question. People post nonsense on TSR but no one bats an eyelid. but if I did then I am the bad one?

I AM NOT STEREOTYPING. you might have come across ugly gay men. but I have not. so what is so hard for you to digest here.

Saying 'gay guys are hot' is stereotyping. If you do not realise that then you do not understand the definition of stereotyping. The reason it's wrong to ask this question is because it's fetishising gay men just because they're gay. Which is bad, in case you hadn't noticed. If you really need empirical proof that unattractive gay guys exist, Google Perez Hilton.

Erm the ones who i have come across have been hot and also telling me that they are gay?

They don't have to deal with stress caused by females and hence look more attractive and do not have stress lines.

Hmm sounds a little odd to me for someone to just simply tell someone they're gay, I mean, I don't tell everyone I'm straight [[I've often been mistaken to be gay though, whoops]].

Do you talk to guys who aren't particularly attractive or nothing special in terms of looks?

I talk to everyone

Well that is my opinion I would not change it in the same way you have yours and you would not change them.

If someone posted a thread 'Straights girls are hot'. I would be happy. why are you being so defensive for? does not make sense.

If you have an opinion that will not be changed by reason and evidence to the contrary then you are a fanatic. To be a fanatic about something as trivial about this is idiotic.

I am 'defensive' because I object to being fetishised by someone because of my sexuality. I am 'defensive' because I object to the stereotype that all gay guys are good-looking, because it damages the self-esteem of many average-looking gays who think they will never be good enough. I am 'defensive' because people who learn I'm gay stop thinking of me as a person who loves history, philosophy, literature, and art, and they just think 'oh look well-proportioned piece of meat to go shopping with and ogle at.'

Well that is my opinion I would not change it in the same way you have yours and you would not change them.

If someone posted a thread 'Straights girls are hot'. I would be happy. why are you being so defensive for? does not make sense.

but any gay guy I have encountered are very hot.

I have gay friends and they do not find what I say to be so offensive like you are. same as if someone says 'straight men are hot'. Would you still still be so defensive?. People might but I don't. I know a gay guy who is more brilliant in academics than I am. What is the point of being so offended when all I am doing is praising gay men?

If you have an opinion that will not be changed by reason and evidence to the contrary then you are a fanatic. To be a fanatic about something as trivial about this is idiotic.

I am 'defensive' because I object to being fetishised by someone because of my sexuality. I am 'defensive' because I object to the stereotype that all gay guys are good-looking, because it damages the self-esteem of many average-looking gays who think they will never be good enough. I am 'defensive' because people who learn I'm gay stop thinking of me as a person who loves history, philosophy, literature, and art, and they just think 'oh look well-proportioned piece of meat to go shopping with and ogle at.'

The point they're trying to make is that it sounds as if you're saying gay guys are hot because they're gay, I don't think that's what you're trying to imply but it was just your choice of wording that makes it sound like that.

It is a bit nitpicky though, I can understand the initial backlash but your question becomes more clear by your second post (comment #4)


Hence why I asked if "why do the majority of guys I find attractive turn out to be gay" is a better question

I think you are going a little overboard. Even though OP did generalise, it was a positive and flattering generalisation. I really doubt that an 'ugly' gay would be deeply damaged by this post. It was just a light hearted, innocent post based on OPs experience.

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