Never had a boyfriend...Want a guy's opinion please?

Sorry I didn't mean it like that, I meant you shouldn't be ashamed or even affected by the fact you haven't been in contact with a guy, I think it is a stupid societal pressure these days..

That's a bit tight?

Then again I think I'd like a guy with a bit of experience?

You just agreed with me lol

I'm nearly 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. Never kissed someone, or even held hands or cuddled a boy. Literally done nothing with a guy.

I find it embarrassing to even admit it to my friends, so admitting it to a guy scares me a bit!

If I happen to find someone who likes me, I'm worried that telling him might put him off a bit.

So guys, what would you think if a girl told you this?

Some people like causing trouble

Well it does otherwise it wouldn't be frowned upon. Rape is possible by your logic that doesn't matter either.

Some people need attention none stop more like.

Haha yeah, some people hey?
So what about your relationships if you don't mind me asking?

I'm nearly 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. Never kissed someone, or even held hands or cuddled a boy. Literally done nothing with a guy.

I find it embarrassing to even admit it to my friends, so admitting it to a guy scares me a bit!

If I happen to find someone who likes me, I'm worried that telling him might put him off a bit.

So guys, what would you think if a girl told you this?

Theres just no saving some people eh haha!

Me? I was with my ex 3 years, from October 2010 til October 2013. Unfortunately I got a bit depressed with my job in May of last year and it totally knocked me for six. From then on we started too drift apart and by the end we were seeing each other out of necessity more than love. Eventually called it a day 6 month ago.

Tbh, I am sad we split, but I am glad because it opened my eyes too the world again, we were both in a rut for various reasons, me with work, she dropped out of uni. But being single has given me new energy to get my life back on track! And I am alot happier, I have got personal goals I want to achieve over the next few months, which I would not of even set this time last year.

So not all bad!

How about you?

My first thought is this: you're eighteen. Plenty of time for that when it happens, but don't go looking for it. It means more when it just happens of its own accord.

My next thought is this: from my own point of view, you having done nothing with a guy before wouldn't put me off. It's a journey you'll be going on, and in that position (I actually am in that position with the girl I'm seeing) I would just try to make it as comfortable and fun a journey as I could.

In short, you have nothing to be ashamed of; nothing to be embarrassed about. Just be discerning about who you do take the early steps with.

And if anyone says 'well a cuddle is just a cuddle' or 'a kiss is just a kiss' - as if those were mundane things - au contraire. There is nothing mundane about any way of showing genuine affection.

Sounds like you're better off without her to me?

I'm very much the same situation as the thread starter, no boyfriend (Bar a guy who I "Went out with" for a week but all we did was go for an hour walk) but I'm still young and want to concentrate on school work first.

Yeah, I think I am better off without her aswell. Its difficult when a relationship gets 'comfortable' because when people stop making an effort, everybody suffers. But yeah, I am in a much better place mentally and physically for it. I now feel I have the experience too make a success of any future relationship after potentially making some mistakes in the last.

Yeah, definitely stick in with school, I started seeing her in 6th form, and my work suffered because I was missing some of my lessons so I could be with her when she had free lessons. Bit stupid, but that's love I supposed. You get blinded by it

Doesn't mean you cant start seeing somebody though! Even if its just abit of fun.

Sounds like you're better off without her to me?

I'm very much the same situation as the thread starter, no boyfriend (Bar a guy who I "Went out with" for a week but all we did was go for an hour walk) but I'm still young and want to concentrate on school work first.

Me? I was with my ex 3 years, from October 2010 til October 2013. Unfortunately I got a bit depressed with my job in May of last year and it totally knocked me for six. From then on we started too drift apart and by the end we were seeing each other out of necessity more than love. Eventually called it a day 6 month ago.

Tbh, I am sad we split, but I am glad because it opened my eyes too the world again, we were both in a rut for various reasons, me with work, she dropped out of uni. But being single has given me new energy to get my life back on track! And I am alot happier, I have got personal goals I want to achieve over the next few months, which I would not of even

I'll get desperate if I've not got someone by the end of uni but for now I don't mind that much.

I'll get desperate if I've not got someone by the end of uni but for now I don't mind that much.

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I'm nearly 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. Never kissed someone, or even held hands or cuddled a boy. Literally done nothing with a guy.

I find it embarrassing to even admit it to my friends, so admitting it to a guy scares me a bit!

If I happen to find someone who likes me, I'm worried that telling him might put him off a bit.

So guys, what would you think if a girl told you this?

I like the way you think. People are so desensitized after a few relationships it becomes very easy to forget how intense physical showings of affection used to feel. Really, they should be taken with far more responsibility and consideration than they are.