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I put a brave face on to pretend it didnt hurt, but inside im thinkin my dads such a kutha im gna nock him out when im older watch lool

Yeh, when i became bigger than my mum, all of the hiring conveniently came to an end.

It actually took threatening my dad to make him stop.

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Lovinlife2

Original post by farrisraza

I put a brave face on to pretend it didnt hurt, but inside im thinkin my dads such a kutha im gna nock him out when im older watch lool

Haha nice one :smile:

lool this is gonna be hilarious I can tell :biggrin:

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I still am, the chappal is not something you wanna feel connecting with your face :afraid:

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Reply 63

Maid Marian

I was slapped on the bottom but nothing worse than that really.

Reply 64

charlottejyp

Beaten is a bit of a strong word but there were times when a wooden spoon was used :lol:

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Reply 65

charlottejyp

Original post by Squirb

With a bamboo stick on my palm

Inb4asianmomz

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omfg the dreaded bamboo cane :afraid:

never happened on the palm though, only the bum

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Reply 66

Babazule

Yep, by every bloody item in the house lol! I'm African so it's expected, but a couple of times it's been so bad! And I I had kids in the future, no matter what they did wrong I would never hit them. I don't think hitting makes them stop being naughty, but it creates an unhealthy relationship between mother and child..
I'd like to have a best friend relationship with my child, as cheesy as it sounds, talking and understanding is so much more effective in my opinion :smile:

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Reply 67

Squirb

Original post by charlottejyp

omfg the dreaded bamboo cane :afraid:

never happened on the palm though, only the bum

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Daaaamn, that would leave a mark!

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Reply 68

TheGameOfScience

i wouldnt say beaten as in abused but beaten just for discipline and sometimes learning how to do things correctly

Reply 69

miser

Smacked, yeah. By both parents on the back of my hand or bum, my dad would sometimes use a slipper.

I won't do it - I think it ought to be illegal.

Reply 70

Zaros

No I did not. Nor do I see a need to hit my children. I see a lot of people who think that not hitting children has caused a decline in the manners of young children. I have to disagree, I think that I have turned out to be acceptable in the eyes of society but I guess that as all things is debatable...

Reply 71

Viva Emptiness

Disturbing how the Asian/African kids are laughing their arses off at the physical abuse they experienced as children.

As someone posted above, the hitting never made me more well behaved, it just made me more sneaky, fearful and a better liar. I won't be having children because my temper is too short and I wouldn't want my kids to have a similar upbringing to me.

Reply 72

L'Evil Fish

Dat seengla.

:frown:

Reply 73

L'Evil Fish

Original post by Squirb

With a bamboo stick on my palm

Inb4asianmomz

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Original post by charlottejyp

omfg the dreaded bamboo cane :afraid:

never happened on the palm though, only the bum

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They hurt so fricking much.

Didn't have it on the palm though.

Reply 74

517340

Quite a few times really.

I got beaten at football, running races, eating contests...
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Srs though I can't even remember if I was disciplined like that, I can't really remember much from my childhood, I hardly remember high school and I'm almost 21.

I don't think I would hit my kids, but I'm sure there's a difference to discipline and downright abuse.
I say I wouldn't hit my kids, but sometimes you see parents who are terrible at raising their kids and they're little ****s and you can't help but wish you could just punt them to the next town sometimes.

Also, babies, what's their problem crying all the time, you're not on fire.

Reply 75

srikanthsrnvs123

Original post by lilangel217

With a chappal :cry2:

Lmao

indian ehh?

ive gotten a couple slaps yeah, im indian but live in dubai, there aiint no laws protecting me here :frown:

Reply 76

username1154717

Original post by srikanthsrnvs123

Lmao

indian ehh?

ive gotten a couple slaps yeah, im indian but live in dubai, there aiint no laws protecting me here :frown:

Not Indian actually :h:

But laws tend not to stop traditional parents anyway :lol:

Reply 77

Squirb

Original post by L'Evil Fish

They hurt so fricking much.

Didn't have it on the palm though.

It didn't hurt much on the palm, a sting and then a short tingling sensation

And left no marks :wink:

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Reply 78

srikanthsrnvs123

Original post by lilangel217

Not Indian actually :h:

But laws tend not to stop traditional parents anyway :lol:

ive not really needed laws protecting me anyways, my parents were brought up my traditional parents, but my dad kinda became international when he met my mom, and gave up all his cultural values, our family is tri-citizen, we hold passports from india, canada, and Germany, so they've kinda learned a lot about norms in these countries, and that abuse isn't really justified.

Reply 79

Laura57

yep still do

dad once gave me a nosebleed, other times i just had to find excuses for red marks and bruises when at school
would i subject my children to that?
Never