Black girls and white guys?

What you are describing isn't a fetish though. To approach me as you suggest with a positive attitude is a preference rather than a fetish. It can get serious because unfortunately they are more common than you think, the guys who think certain negative things just because I'm black. It is not immediately obvious all the time, but it is extra work to find out what their attitudes are before "going there".

You are very lucky you don't have to deal with such issues, I know I seem over serious to you but I guess the problem isn't as widespread as you imagines.

Awesome.

Your mom must have missed her home though. Do you resemble closer to your mom or dad?

You're right on racial prejudices from family, they tend to be a bit backward. However, not so much on cultural differences. In my case, I was born in England and raised in England by parents who were also born and raised in England. This is the same with a lot of other black girls in England, and they're pretty much British so I don't see where the cultural differences would be?

Well that's ridiculous. In England especially, most of us identify as British so there isn't too much prejudice from the family. My family for example, have no qualms with me dating white guys. In fact, my gran just married a white guy and her last husband was white. Anyway, back to the point I was making xD, you shouldn't let the prejudice of some parents stop you. Not every black family is like that, and trust me, they love it when a white person embraces the culture, it shows their open-mindedness!

Discuss.

On average black girls tend to go for guys who would be accepted in their family as well. I know a few girls who wouldn't ever date a white guy because firstly he's white so "how would he know anything about anything we are interested in" and secondly their parents would probably laugh him out of their house. I know a Nigerian girl who dated a Vietnamese guy and she had to end it with him , because her parents didn't accept him - even though both were British.

Also a lot of black girls have already been with a black guy before - so once you go black...etc etc. I'm mixed and I don't particularly find white guys attractive, although there have been a few exceptions - it's their general vibe they give off which deters me.

I've also noticed that black guys are better at handling black girls. Black girls tend to be a lot more rowdy, and I know a lot of white guys who would easily back down, given a confrontation with the "single ladies" head movement ting.

I hate generalisations like this.

Yeah yeah - so do I, buttttttt GENERALLY, USUALLY, the MAJORITY (however you want to say it) this happens. So generalisation or not, you have it,

Somalia and Russia. Both Muslim. My Mum and Dad would be fine with me marrying a guy of a different race but he'd have to be a Muslim.

I stand by what I say, I don't understand why there would be prejudice from the family and I've never witnessed it. Perhaps it's different with African families compared to Caribbean families but I don't know where the other girl tagged is from. Every case is different?

I've never met a black girl I've been attracted to, otherwise I'd at least try asking them out

I would agree with every case is different, but if anything would hold me back (and it does) it would be the fact that black people are exceptionally racially discriminatory against whites

I would agree with every case is different, but if anything would hold me back (and it does) it would be the fact that black people are exceptionally racially discriminatory against whites

Whaaaaaaaaaaat?! Have you been discriminated against then? If so, what happened. It shouldn't be something to hold you back. I've had my fair share of discrimination in good ol' England (and Europe for that matter) but it's never held me back and it never will because I know everyone is different. So yeah, give me an example or two?

But it's not a fact, it's just your impression. Black and white mixed raced people are the biggest ethnic minority group in Britain. It would help if there was less ignorance and assumptions on both sides.

You do have a valid point there.

I suspect the kind of black people who are more opposed to white intermixing tend to be 2nd gen African's as most of the 3rd gen blacks tend to be from West Indian backgrounds so have been been here longer and are perhaps slightly more assimilated hence the adoption of West Indian food/music into popular culture as well compared to other groups. With this in mind it's bewildering after having been here for so long, people still maintain such prejudice views about 'black people'.

I suspect the kind of black people who are more opposed to white intermixing tend to be 2nd gen African's as most of the 3rd gen blacks tend to be from West Indian backgrounds so have been been here longer and are perhaps slightly more assimilated hence the adoption of West Indian food/music into popular culture as well compared to other groups. With this in mind it's bewildering after having been here for so long, people still maintain such prejudice views about 'black people'.

Whaaaaaaaaaaat?! Have you been discriminated against then? If so, what happened. It shouldn't be something to hold you back. I've had my fair share of discrimination in good ol' England (and Europe for that matter) but it's never held me back and it never will because I know everyone is different. So yeah, give me an example or two?

But it's not a fact, it's just your impression. Black and white mixed raced people are the biggest ethnic minority group in Britain. It would help if there was less ignorance and assumptions on both sides.