I've been to both (but state for only 4 years), I'd say top end private school kids are definitely more 'sophisticated' than at state school, who know/care less about that sort of thing, and far more 'cultured'. They (we) go see lots of plays etc. They're also a lot less down to earth, because they live ultra sheltered lifestyles, very few kids, especially girls (just an observation) at my school have ever been on a bus. (Other public transport yeah, but there's something about buses). It means that a lot of private school kids, again, particularly those at top end schools, have really distorted perspectives on life. My friend switched from a vw polo to a mini because the vw was 'too masculine'. (Yes, these things make us shake our heads, but they're not a shock at my school). I've seen a lot here about insults and homophobia, but actually I'd say if it's a coed private school like mine, it's not a big problem at all. And just briefly, girls get it really good compared to state schools. In this aspect private schools are far, far superior than state schools in terms of bullying etc. All boys schools are different, the state one i went to was typical in homophobia, rugby lad culture and distinct social hierarchies. But then, all boys private schools are far, far worse - nowhere near to violence, but the culture is seriously messed up. Thankfully I had an easy ride but yeah...any questions about it just ask...