So girl I've loved/liked for 4 years, and supposedly given up on contacts me ...

That's why you shouldn't fall in love so easily. The hurt and disappointment when they don't return it is damaging.

How was falling in love after 4 whole years "so easily" ... it was inevitable.

You loved someone who lived in another country?

move on , stop acting like your whipped.

Go F yourself ... don't insult me you wuss.

your the wuss here crying like a little girl, grow up and grow some balls and move on.

Who I've known personally for 4 years, yes.

When would bad body language ever mean good, unless you're looking to humiliate someone (i.e bad body language when you've insulted someone)?!?

Your whole response is categorical gobbledegook ... i.e I'm not responding to you again.

I know better than anyone that you she wouldn't be messing with me like you say - I'm confident of that.

I do think the signs mean something -- no girl is going to act like this to a guy she isn't interested it - FACT.

But again, I've just told you I've given up on her, I haven't answered her Facebook message, and don't intend to ever.

She is messing you around.. She just wants attention and she knows she will get it from you because you like her. You should push her away and she does have a boyfriend so I think you should just leave it because you don't want to make trouble for yourself. If she really cared, wouldn't she have tried earlier with you? It's been four years... Hope I helped if you read this ������ x

How many times have I read this in the relationship section of TSR. You're no different - sorry to have to break it to you.

She's choosing not to be decisive and choose one of you, instead just remaining in the desirable position of being liked by two people. She might care about both of you, but not enough to cut one loose.

Steer away - obvious thing to do is obvious...

whatever you do though, please come back to tell us what happens.

Why post this thread if you're going to insult everyone?

Yes she likes you, but she feels lonely in her country with you not being there, like most people would. She obviously can't handle the distance so finds a boyfriend, you either move there with her or move on. Or even wait a couple of years when you're both more mature.

It would never have lived up to your expectations after four years anyway.

A lot of people need to get this into their thick skulls ... she isn't messing with me, end of. The reason why we never had anything official - we were a "thing" or whatever - is because we live in different countries, and EVERYONE knows LDR are too hot to handle ... well at least I did.

I'm not going to do bat **** with her now since she's in a couple ... I hope the guy treats her like I would've done if we had the chance ...

And just to clarify: I've been in a relationship in the past when the girl was using me, and I see NO similarities with her whatsoever.