Guys : Would you be in relationship with a girl that has a child?

Is she another the world owes her and some are beneath her?

Doubt that it would be a no!

Based on that there would be several things I would be concerned about. And no the child wouldn't be one of them.


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No

Why didnt you just make this a poll?

Nope

Also, how do you get a 2:1 in attractiveness?

Get off your arse and get a job. Use the money you spend on designer labels to set up your son with good funds for education, etc. Be a good role model for your son.

You sound stupid and if I was a guy I wouldn't want to date you.

I must admit I do agree with this

As someone who said no, I do think most guys secretly would say yes. Most people saying no, are probably afraid the woman would end up taking more money than she puts in, but with the exception of medical students, few people on here will ever in their entire lives earn 120k per year.

No. Nope. Nah. Negatory. Never. The kid is bad enough. The person sounds worse.

You say all that but use the word 'girl', so assuming young.
Hell no.

Nope

Also, how do you get a 2:1 in attractiveness?

1) She isn't your usual chav type, she is quite wealthy and on average can bring home £120k per year after taxes without even lifting a single finger.

Rich and attractive sounds worse than what exactly? You're delusional.

Would you be in a relationship with a girl that is near your age but has a child?

Some points to consider :-

1) She isn't your usual chav type, she is quite wealthy and on average can bring home £120k per year after taxes without even lifting a single finger.

2) Good personality though a bit aggressive and isn't afraid to show her wealth.

3) A living advertisement board, everything she and her boy wears is an expensive designer label.

4) The baby's father is dead from a car accident. He however set her up for life which will explain the wealth levels.

5) Attractiveness, she can easily qualify for a high 2:1 and for the most part unless she happens to bring her boy out you wouldn't think she has a child.

6) Lots of similar interest but lots of other interest that most likely unless you have similar wealth levels will be difficult to afford though she won't mind paying for you if you make for good company.

Yes or no?

Get off your arse and get a job. Use the money you spend on designer labels to set up your son with good funds for education, etc. Be a good role model for your son.

You sound stupid and if I was a guy I wouldn't want to date you.

How?

1) You didn't say anything about her personality or why you like her as a person. The only advantages you listed were money related, you sound like a major gold-digger using money as a means of making up for the fact that she has a baby. You shallow, shallow person.

2) So what if she has a kid whose dad is no longer in the picture? I'm sure it would be different if the dad were still alive but there is no risk in you losing out in any way possible.

3) Rating a person as a 2:1 what a ****ing arrogant cretin you are.

Sounds like you don't even deserve this woman to be honest, and you're definitely not mature enough to be with anyone with a kid so do us all a favour and grow up, get your own job and start earning your own money.

I don't think I'd want to be with a guy who's got kids, my siblings and I weren't very fond of our dad's ex wife lol.

If I were a guy, no I wouldn't want a relationship with you.

It seems like you're glad the baby's dad is dead because you get his money therefore you choose not to work and live off a dead person's wealth plus your personality's ****.

1). Wealth doesn't matter, and the chav thing is good for some people, not for others. But I see what you are trying to say.
2). As long as her personality is good, there's no problem. The rest, can come off badly to others, but this is about you and her, so as long as you're good with it, then its good.
3). Doesn't really matter as long as you can see through to her personality.
4). Unfortunate, as long as both of you are comfortable with the past, its fine. Agian, wealth doesn't matter.
5). Again, your choice, but personally to me attractiveness is just a bonus.
6). Its always good to have similar interests, and if she doesn't mind paying a little for your company it must mean she likes you.

All in all, all that it comes down to is, do you like her? (Without the wealth, just think of the gestures). And are you OK with her having a child? As long as you all get along, the child shouldn't change anything in my opinion.
(Remember, this is my opinion, you got to male your own one up)
Good luck, be safe.

She sounds like a nightmare to me..

Why would you ask this question on a forum where the majority are aged between 15-20 years old? Her having a child and being a widow is not a problem if you truley have feelings for her but using her or taking advantage of her situation would be extremely wrong...