I'm a moody guy...

Yea. I'm a moody guy. But i always try to be happy when i meet people. Its just that i don't have enough control over my emotions. Its not like i rage at people. I never hit anyone or call people names when i'm angry or when i'm feeling down. I just go silent and emotions ebb, rise and rustle inside of me. And that pretty much shows in my face and i give off a very aggressive vibe (siblings told me). I have learn't to accept myself for who i am.

Actually, in my university, there's this girl who steals glances at me. People usually don't talk to me at uni and i have very few acquaintances. So, a lot of my classmates sometimes just stare at me expressionless, because i always walk ALONE in class or in an exam hall. I know because i've seen this happen. But this girl has been stealing glances at me whenever she sees me. But i'm 100% sure a girl would never want a relationship with me.

My questions is...

Would a girl stay with me? I mean, would a girl ever think of having a relationship with a guy like me? Will i be able to sustain a relationship with a girl?

P.S: I'm not trying to pity myself. I'll take any answer you give me as an advice. But please don't troll. Not today.

No reason why not. As long as you aren't... Violent or anything and can at least be a little happy around her (and her parents ) you should be fine

Yes, it's possible. I know someone like that and he's been in a relationship for over two years. He's a complete social leper and he does despise most people.

I think you should stay optimistic who knows? Maybe she can bring the light in you? That sounds corny, I know. But I know a lot of people who have changed their partners for better and made them a better person, vice versa. Regardless of you spending time alone, I think it wouldn't be too bad if you spoke to her just see what her intentions are, if she wants to be a friend or what? If she does, she'll probably carry on from there and pick up on the conversations and stuff. Maybe she thinks that you won't be interested in her, so she doesn't try talking to you. Try talk to her and see what happens

Do you think this has something to do with hormones? I'm just wondering as I am 24 years old and a male, yet I have mood swings akin to a teenage girl. It would be cool if there were a way to fiddle around with the hormone levels without it being dangerous.

Personally I wouldn't have the patience for someone like that. I'd much rather someone talk to me and explain their feelings than go silent on me. However, that's not to say other people wouldn't be happy in a relationship like that. While you know what you are like, you have to remember that a relationship does not mean your partner will instantly understand and know everything about you. You need to explain that you are like that, it's just how you are and it's nothing against them. Otherwise your next thread will be "my girlfriend keeps getting upset with me just because I'm quiet"

Haha. Nah, i don't hurt people. I just go silent.



Social leper? Yea, you've used the right term. I think people just shun me and ignore me since i'm not really that interesting. But it doesn't matter, since life is full of surprises

I might occasionally hold a grudge against people for hurting me, but it goes away as easily as it comes. I don't despise people.

It doesn't matter it's cliche but even the most attractive girl has her own taste lol, she might like you, she might not. If you get an opportunity to speak to her, I think you should just see what she's like, if she is completely the opposite of what you thought of her (in a bad way) then don't speak to her again, but if she's nice then learn to accept her and let her in also, that way maybe you can learn to interact with her friends, and come out of your shell. you'll find yourself a lot happier, in my opinion and from experiences

Go for a coffee with the girl who is peeking at you. You will feel much happier.

Lots of girls get massively taken in by snowflakes guys who give the "I am so moody, I hate the world around me" schtick. Just make sure you are well dressed and give off that part of the aware, elite vibe and it will probably work in your favour.

Lots of girls get massively taken in by snowflakes guys who give the "I am so moody, I hate the world around me" schtick. Just make sure you are well dressed and give off that part of the aware, elite vibe and it will probably work in your favour.

yeh great advice this will totally work, especially as you don't have the courage to talk to anyone so they'll immediately clock those moody 'vibes' and be into it