Told a friend I like her.....

I'm not a Clinical Psychologist or anything, but I know crazy talk when I see it. And that, madam...is crazy talk.

Annoying how she tried getting personal on me, by trying to bring my sex life into the equation.

Anyway - won't derail the thread.

OP - listen to Clip, if not me, she knows what she is talking about. Don't be a mug.

I'm secure about these things, but *she*?

I heard a very compelling argument that if you want advice on how to get girls, do not listen to girls.

lol

What talking about my ex gf??? - btw I didnt do this longwinded friends game to get her, Attraction was there.

BTW, i am not the only one on here who voiced a similar opinion. Clip has as well and she is a girl.

You are giving this man terrible advice when he has overly emotionally invested in her. You cant be friends with someone you are really into, so dont even try it.

Yup. Spot on here.



I don't see the point of playing these games.

Honestly I think these games are just people's way of being shy and being scared to make a move. Or if they're unsure about the guy. Is it really that hard ffs?

Weird thing is it kind of just happened I didn't go looking for this.....despite all the flirting we do.

Not all women play games. The one's that don't are the ones I generally get along with.

But every now and again, you get the ones that do.
They do it, because they like the attention and the idea of having that guy being into them, even if they have no attention in sleeping with them. It's a quick and cheap ego boost.

One of my mates, who is a girl, she basically does something similar. She goes out with guys, despite knowing they are into them and uses them for a free meal (the date). She admitted doing this.

Bit mental and sick really.

Not all women play games. The one's that don't are the ones I generally get along with.

But every now and again, you get the ones that do.
They do it, because they like the attention and the idea of having that guy being into them, even if they have no attention in sleeping with them. It's a quick and cheap ego boost.

One of my mates, who is a girl, she basically does something similar. She goes out with guys, despite knowing they are into them and uses them for a free meal (the date). She admitted doing this.

Bit mental and sick really.

Why is it weird?

If a girl told me she liked me through a text, I would be flattered.

Maybe, you girls are a bit weird?

Nope. I'm not fond of those kind of conversations via text. But I'm not fond of those conversations full stop.

Can't win with you lot can we?

I got a snapchat of her desert late last night, a bowl of ice cream. What the hell?

its fine, i got a txt and everything is ok. Wouldve been better in a perfect world, but we'll see.

Atleast its over and I can move on with my life.

Can everyone please stop arguing btw, everyone is different.

its fine, i got a txt and everything is ok. Wouldve been better in a perfect world, but we'll see.

Atleast its over and I can move on with my life.

Can everyone please stop arguing btw, everyone is different.

Trust me, you're not going to accurately read a woman through texts. The 'game' is insensitive, I'm only directing you towards future success.

its fine, i got a txt and everything is ok. Wouldve been better in a perfect world, but we'll see.

Atleast its over and I can move on with my life.

Can everyone please stop arguing btw, everyone is different.

You've completely missed my point.

And please do not pretend you are successful with women because I've seen your threads - you aren't. So you're not in any place to give advice to a guy who wants to be successful. Sorry to be harsh.

You do not understand women and arguing with someone who knows women better than you do shows your naivety and incidentally precisely why you don't do well. You assume you know best, you won't listen and you're not perceptive.

If you want a healthy relationship with a stable woman, playing these games will not work. Only insecure, immature women will seek approval from a man that has ignored them. And that attention will be short lived.

If a man ignores a female friend after he's been rejected many women will think he was only ever interested in getting in her pants and didn't value the friendship so will see the guy as a bullet well dodged.

Why would anyone that has been rejected by someone they like male or female, want to remain in the same vicinity as them for the foreseeable future? That is akin to mental masturbation.

Maybe I'm not understanding something but if someone rejects me, I move on - what am I staying in contact with them for?

Do people think you can simply just become friends the second you get rejected? It doesn't work that way, you need time - alone.. to reflect, but most importantly to work on yourself, and keep yourself busy until the feelings wane.

During the latter stages of this process, you will instantly know whether or not you want to remain friends with them.

I've been rejected several times, but it's really not as bad as people make out. I've also decided to remain friends with two of the girls, one of which has become my best female friend to date.

Also its not game-playing to cut contact with someone that rejected you, it's actually very healthy for your mental health and your relationships.