Now, I'm not intending to get married anytime soon, especially since me and my boyfriend are still at university.
But I was watching something on youtube about weddings, and it got me thinking.
I HATE the idea of having someone "give" me away. I love my Dad, but he does not own me and I wouldn't be his to give away. I would have been the one that said yes to the proposal.
And I am not giving myself to my fiance anymore than he is giving himself to me.
I've never really seen myself as much of a feminist, other than just wanting to be respected as a person, but I found that I feel quite strongly about this.
I know that if I told this to my parents, they would both be very upset about such a thing. My mother's dad gave her away, and also felt sad that she was the only one of his 4 daughters that he gave away before he died. I am also my Dad's only daughter and I imagine he'd want to walk me down the aisle since it's a tradition that he expects. So hopefully it will be a while before I get married.
Does anyone else feel like this too?