He calls me fat, withholds sex and affection...

People have addressed the other problems already. Why am i an idiot for not going over ground already covered?

There are loads of ways to lose weight if you're really that big. The most effective will likely be a better diet, lots of water and regular exercise can all help with this.

Because you're wrong. Even if she were a size 0 he'd still find something to make her feel like crap about.

I've had plenty of experience with this, trust me. There's ALWAYS something.

Not wrong, the other issue is covered pretty much. OP obviously is or thinks she is overweight and one way or another still needs to be addressed even if it isn't the the most paramount concern.

People have addressed the other problems already. Why am i an idiot for not going over ground already covered?

Not wrong, the other issue is covered pretty much. OP obviously is or thinks she is overweight and one way or another still needs to be addressed even if it isn't the the most paramount concern.

Not wrong, the other issue is covered pretty much. OP obviously is or thinks she is overweight and one way or another still needs to be addressed even if it isn't the the most paramount concern.

So you're in an abusive manipulating relationship where he has managed to bully and persuade you that you are the one causing the problems and it's you're fault he gets angry.

My advice, find someone else.

I agree with this. It shouldn't take many people to agree to this for the OP to have to change her mind about the manipulative "boyfriend".

OP. You do not want to continue your relationship with this man trust me, things will only get worse, you deserve much more.

Get out of this relationship ASAP. You're not to blame. Hes manipulating you into believing its your fault.

Dump him now.

This guy is bringing you down and emotionally abusing you.

Please leave and build your confidence again, it will seem very difficult but you deserve better.

You're clearly strong at heart because you managed to break off from him before. I don't think you need confirmation that is time to move on. No matter whether this is the best relationship you've had or not, no matter whether you're lonely without him, he's clearly causing you a lot of mental pain. No woman should be spoken to and controlled like that by their partner. Break it off again, and this time, break the contact as well. Unfriend him on Facebook, change your phone number if you need to, but make sure it's a clean break and that he cannot send you messages to lure you back in.

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Abusive relationship. I've been there, and I know how hard it is. This is absolutely not your fault, I promise. They havbe a way of making you feel it's your fault and you deserve this treatment. You don't.

My advice is to leave, however you won't until you feel ready to. I didn't leave for ages even though I had people telling me what a ****er my ex was. If you want to talk, I'm here

You seem to have a low self esteem and he is exploiting that to control you for whatever end he sees fit by reinforcing your own negative perceptions of yourself.

I agree with ^^, this is a horrible abusive relationship and is not going anywhere. He clearly does not love you or even like you and will dump you as soon as a better offer comes along.

You are worth far, far, more than that and you owe it to yourself to leave this pig and never look back.

When you have left him, start thinking about how to change your life at home with a stifling family. But don't link the two. Sort out one problem at a time and start with getting rid of Mr ****er.

Soon you will have your degree and can congratulate yourself and be proud of the hard work over many years that allowed YOU to achieve it.

If you need to change other things about yourself you are unhappy with, do it for yourself and for no-one else but yourself.

Go for it and good luck.

I never really got that. As a woman if my man were to start treating me like dirt I'd leave him in the blink of an eye.

For every "mean" man out there, there's a handful who will treat you just right. The longer women stay with an abusive man, the more men will think that's okay and this reflects on the rest of us women. Really very frustrating.

Leave him. He's not worth it. It's not you, he's clearly not right in the head. However be careful if you end it, he sounds like he's got a mean temper.

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I'm really confused by women like you who just choose to stay in obviously crappy relationships?! Just move on for crying out loud.

I really don't understand why you women feel the need to stay with guys who clearly abuse you and ignore guys who would treat you with respect. If you keep going back to him, you're going to suffer. It's going to turn nasty. So, if you want to save yourself, leave him. And go for that guy who you definitely must've ignored when he was being nice to you.

It's all about low self-esteem that has very deep roots. A lot of people feel they don't deserve to be loved and if they leave their partner, they'll never be able to get in another relationship. Chances are that people with low self-esteem also struggle to make friends, so they rely completely on their partner to feel wanted and to avoid loneliness. If the said partner is emotionally abusive, like in OP's case, it can further reinforce the belief that they don't deserve to be loved and they are lucky to have their partner who is willing to be in a relationship. It's very easy to tell these people to move on, but if you look at it from their point of view, it's an impossible decision to make.