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Do girls actually prefer a gentleman or badboys?(Girls opinions)

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Original post by RayApparently
I consider myself to be very gentlemanly (I always end up paying for the film tickets...) but I don't consider myself over 30 lol

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Sure sure... Paying for who? Boys or girls or both :colone:

You didn't continue about HL Maths! :frown:

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Well, I think amongst our generation, your stereotypical 'British gentlemen' is more or less extinct!
I think you mean whether they like good boys or bad boys.
Most girls are initially attracted to bad boys, but when they get to about 25 they realize that the bad boys are a waste of their time (for the most part!).
This thread proves girls don't know what they want
Reply 83
Original post by Anonymous
Well, I think amongst our generation, your stereotypical 'British gentlemen' is more or less extinct!
I think you mean whether they like good boys or bad boys.
Most girls are initially attracted to bad boys, but when they get to about 25 they realize that the bad boys are a waste of their time (for the most part!).


Are you speaking for all of us? Who said we all fall for thugs and low lives?
Original post by fojodef
females in general prefer bad boys. they just like to have sex with them a lot.

thats why if your a nice guy work hard, get a house, a job, move your wife and children in. your wonderful wife will probably be sucking off the next door neighbour that drives a motorcycle. and she probably never sucked you off. and probably never will.
sad times....


anyway girls just tend to prefer bad boys because they are entertaining.
women prefer to have a boyfriend who beats them, argues with them and smokes crack rather than be bored.

thats the biggest problem. boredom. girls get bored, and easily. they like problems. its romantic. no love story that girls like ever had a nice easy going time. there was always DRAMA. in fact 50 shades of grey is all about some woman that's essentially bullied into obeying the bizarre sexual desires of a freaky boss of hers.
NICE

and guess what. your mom and your girlfriend loved reading it. filthy slags...

basically guys. just enjoy being single. and then when your afraid of dying alone, buy a thai bride. adopt rather than have your own kids. to have your own kids you need to share them with their mother. and you don't want the mothers semen covered lips kissing your child goodnight.

all the best!:colondollar:


Perhaps this sounds negative to agree (towards women) but I guess this is true. Nice guys work hard to get that nice lifestyle, a house, a car and treat their wives and children. Only to find out the wife is f*****g some other guy that doesn't earn as much as you! has less going for him and is a complete d**k! Makes me pretty bitter...and maybe it's wrong that it makes me feel a sense of hatred toward women...that they dare play away from a man that provides so much for them...security and children more specifically, but I guess they just don't know what's good for them. Maybe I'm just a misogynist I dunno, I just feel pretty frustrated that in fact this happens a lot. I know blokes cheat a lot, but I'm willing to bet there are loads of women that play away rather successfully whilst there husbands oblivious to this despicable behaviour.

I think many women in this situation would sympathise and excuse this behaviour...by saying oh he was boring, he never gave her what she wanted, she wasn't satisfied, or he had no clue...etc etc...all a load of rubbish!

Cheating is cheating regardless, infidelity is all the same, regardless or creed, gender, skin or condition. Just annoys me that sometimes exceptions are made for one and not the other.

Makes me sick to see all those viral videos and even in pornos women cheating on their man. Then people go and validate this and say he should be satisfying her and give her what she wants. I suppose we're not all mind readers though.

All in all, the reason this annoys me is because I feel I would most likely be the man this would happen too...I don't think it's fair a man should be branded boring for being a gentleman. These men can provide much more than any 'thug" can provide. Besides, women will soon get sick of immature bad boys....and become bitter and frustrated, at which point I would say...told ya so...or, they catch some STI and actually realise the error of their ways.
Reply 85
Original post by Anonymous
Perhaps this sounds negative to agree (towards women) but I guess this is true. Nice guys work hard to get that nice lifestyle, a house, a car and treat their wives and children. Only to find out the wife is f*****g some other guy that doesn't earn as much as you! has less going for him and is a complete d**k! Makes me pretty bitter...and maybe it's wrong that it makes me feel a sense of hatred toward women...that they dare play away from a man that provides so much for them...security and children more specifically, but I guess they just don't know what's good for them. Maybe I'm just a misogynist I dunno, I just feel pretty frustrated that in fact this happens a lot. I know blokes cheat a lot, but I'm willing to bet there are loads of women that play away rather successfully whilst there husbands oblivious to this despicable behaviour.

I think many women in this situation would sympathise and excuse this behaviour...by saying oh he was boring, he never gave her what she wanted, she wasn't satisfied, or he had no clue...etc etc...all a load of rubbish!

Cheating is cheating regardless, infidelity is all the same, regardless or creed, gender, skin or condition. Just annoys me that sometimes exceptions are made for one and not the other.

Makes me sick to see all those viral videos and even in pornos women cheating on their man. Then people go and validate this and say he should be satisfying her and give her what she wants. I suppose we're not all mind readers though.

All in all, the reason this annoys me is because I feel I would most likely be the man this would happen too...I don't think it's fair a man should be branded boring for being a gentleman. These men can provide much more than any 'thug" can provide. Besides, women will soon get sick of immature bad boys....and become bitter and frustrated, at which point I would say...told ya so...or, they catch some STI and actually realise the error of their ways.


yea it sucks. quite literally.

quite equally though the skanks that stay comitted to the bad boys get frustrated with their shambles of a life together and they go out looking to suck off some fat bald ugly guy with money.

totally hear you with the porn thing. the sheer mammoth amounts of porn makes me think next time im having a bash im gonna see my girlfriend (although im single but like uno the next one) on there.
Anything with a healthy bank ballance
Reply 87
Good boys with money.
Original post by matthewduncan
Anything with a healthy bank ballance


:wink: :smile:
Original post by Evelyn.AT
:wink: :smile:


I tell nay lies
Original post by Stuffme
Defending you from what? Spiders? Elephants?


Haha. Defend/protect me against things/people that could harm me.
Original post by Tyrion_Lannister
Something though, if the only good point about you is being a gentleman, you don't get far. Being a boring gentleman isnt attractive. Being a gentleman AND having something about you is


This 100%


PRSOM.
Original post by Secretnerd123
This 100%


PRSOM.

Thank you :biggrin:

Having one attractive trait doesn't automatically make you a pussyslayer, I don't know why that's so hard
Original post by iJess
Gentleman. I've been with a bad boy, and getting abused by your own boyfriend who is always high on cocaine or mkat wasn't any fun.


Aww sorry to hear that miss. I really can't stand when lovely girls like you are the victims and often end up being heartbroken/abused by their own partner who doesn't appreciate what they have. Wish you all the best.
Original post by Maxi93ITA
Aww sorry to hear that miss. I really can't stand when lovely girls like you are the victims and often end up being heartbroken/abused by their own partner who doesn't appreciate what they have. Wish you all the best.


Trying to be a gentleman eh :wink:
Original post by Secretnerd123
Trying to be a gentleman eh :wink:


haha no I am like this.I am naturally a gentleman with a touch of coolness XD
Bit of both to be honest. Even though bad boys can be extremely hot, you need a guy who will treat you right and respect you.
Original post by Hogwartianwand14
Haha. Defend/protect me against things/people that could harm me.


Nothing will protect you against a gun.
Reply 98
Bad boy -> gentleman to me

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