Why do people have unprotected sex if they don't want a baby?

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Reply 60

lucaf

Original post by Tyrion_Lannister

How was it painful? :lol:

I've only used a condom once and it was dreadful, felt like I was ****ing sandpaper or glass shards...

certain things tore that I would prefer had remained intact :colondollar:

apart from that time it has been fine, I suppose it feels a little better but not that much different :tongue:

Reply 61

Tyrion_Lannister

Original post by lucaf

certain things tore that I would prefer had remained intact :colondollar:

apart from that time it has been fine, I suppose it feels a little better but not that much different :tongue:

Ah damn! Meh I think I might be allergic which is why I have such a dislike :tongue:

Reply 62

lucaf

Original post by Tyrion_Lannister

Ah damn! Meh I think I might be allergic which is why I have such a dislike :tongue:

I suppose that is one of the worst places to have an allergic reaction :biggrin:

Reply 63

Tyrion_Lannister

Original post by lucaf

I suppose that is one of the worst places to have an allergic reaction :biggrin:

Yep. It was really painful, literally a wtf moment

Reply 64

Anonymous #2

A combination of factors come in to play:
1. A strange quirk of sex drive that addles your brain
2. Alcohol which addles your brain even more
3. Few pleasurable things are risk free
4. No perfect contraceptive yet exists
5. Stupidity

Despite all of these factors often people manage to avoid unwanted pregnancy nowadays.

Reply 65

username1456920

Original post by Viva Emptiness

Thanks!

...fancy a bit?

Sure why not...

(It's worth noting I have no idea what you're talking about.)

Reply 66

Anonymous #3

I must admit ive done it a few times with new partners. Its a moment of passion thing and in my case, actively desired and encouraged by the female. Of course its not ideal. Time was when you could bed a girl and have little or nothing to worry about. How times have changed. Women often do prefer it au naturelle..best to play safe though.

Reply 67

the mezzil

Senseless and lustful idiocy.

Reply 68

Mankytoes

Original post by Tyrion_Lannister

Are you taking the piss? Condoms are awful !!

One of the phrases men secretely love hearing...

Reply 69

Tyrion_Lannister

Original post by Mankytoes

One of the phrases men secretely love hearing...

I don't understand how anyone likes them

Reply 70

Mankytoes

Original post by Tyrion_Lannister

I don't understand how anyone likes them

My girlfriend hated the smell. I just think interupting the motion of the foreplay makes passionate loving hard. Plus vaginas feel nice.

To be fair, the first few times I had sex, I didn't really give a **** that I was wearing one, obviously I had nothing to compare to, and I was happy to just be getting laid.

Reply 71

Tyrion_Lannister

Original post by Mankytoes

I never used one the first time so when I did I was like WTF. Painful and weird.

Exactly it's weird to just stop and put one on

Reply 72

ChaoticButterfly

Original post by TSA

Sure why not...

(It's worth noting I have no idea what you're talking about.)

Reply 73

username1456920

Original post by ChaoticButterfly

Oh err..erm...

:colondollar:

Reply 74

malefni

Original post by lucaf

not going on birth control has worse adverse efffects :tongue:

also, not sure about sex being better without a condom, never noticed much of a difference personally.

Well, you might prolly be the only one to feel that way, unfortunately.

Reply 75

SoftPunch

Original post by skd1996

Why should a woman have to put chemicals into her body that can cause bad side-effects and can actually even alter her body?

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No-one's telling you 'all women should' but if you care as a woman yourself for minimising the chance of becoming pregnant then you'd be smart enough to take them considering you have no side-effects. And to see for them, you'd need to try out the pills in first place.

It's like guys asking ''why should I wear a condom if it doesn't make sex pleasurable for me as it would without it?'' -- emm STDs/STIs etc??

Reply 76

SophieSmall

Original post by malefni

Going on birth control has adverse effects in the long run. It messes up a woman's period cycle.

Misinformation...
Birth control has an abundance of positive side affects for many women and it regulates cycles (I used to have a cycle once every 3 months now I am regular as clock work). Not to mention it significantly reduces the risk of cervical cancer I think it was as high as reducing it by 60% if I recall correctly.

Reply 77

malefni

Original post by SophieSmall

Well I think it works differently for different women.. My ex gf's period cycle was messed up after going on the pill though.

Reply 78

fojodef

Original post by MylittlePlusle

I don't understand why people have sex without anything to stop pregnancy if they don't want to have a child it's quite silly. I think people should stop complaining if they get a female pregnant or get pregnant. I don't believe in "accidental" pregnancy as they chose to have unprotected sex.

its quite simple. they are idiots.
they spread disease and have unwanted badly raised children.

they are people so irresponsible they make the choice of "it kinda feels better" when they run the risk of dieing slowly from hiv or having a child.

they also probably run the risk of spreading it because most of these same idiots are too cowardly to get themselves checked out.

Reply 79

Ronove

Original post by malefni

Well I think it works differently for different women.. My ex gf's period cycle was messed up after going on the pill though.

It can take about three months for it to become controlled when you first go on the pill. After that it should be completely fine. I originally started on the contraceptive pill for the purposes of controlling my cycle. It improved my quality of life considerably.