I love my boyfriend but I'm being tempted by other men

I've been with my lovely, amazing boyfriend, who is also my best friend, for a year and 5 months. The thing is... I'm finding myself becoming increasingly tempted sexually by two other men.

The thing is, I see my boyfriend once a fortnight on average because he's quite busy, whereas I see the two other men I'm interested in almost every day because they're my colleagues. One of the other men I'm only slightly interested in, but the other one I'm finding irresistable, to be honest... and I see him all the time! Sometimes the temptation is so strong I feel like I'm gonna explode!

I'd love to try him out for one night and then return to my lovely boyfriend, who I do love very much, but I know relationships don't work like that.

The thing is, I'm not even sure it's gonna work long-term with my boyfriend. I'm 20 and he's an older guy with a daughter and his own busy life and honestly, I can't see all this reconciling for the better. But parting from my boyfriend would mean losing the best friend I ever had. What do I do?

The thing is... I like my colleague both as a friend and sexually, but there is zero romantic feeling. But the urge to get this out of my system is just... insurmountable.

I'd love to try him out for one night and then return to my lovely boyfriend.

The thing is, I'm not even sure it's gonna work long-term with my boyfriend. I'm 20 and he's an older guy with a daughter and his own busy life and honestly, I can't see all this reconciling for the better. But parting from my boyfriend would mean losing the best friend I ever had. What do I do?

you women.. always causing heartbreak and cheating on your loyal male partner

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Try and ignore the TSR-kiddies giving you the old "if you really loved him you wouldn't feel that way"-nonsense. Everyone is different, and most of the people on here have never had a long-term relationship.

As a person who is thoroughly in love with their partner but often panics a bit about attraction to other people, I can understand where you're coming from.

We can't answer the question as to what you should do for you, but you need to consider what you actually want from the two guys, i.e. Do you see them as potential relationships, or just find them sexually attractive? If the latter, is it really worth stopping an otherwise happy relationship for? If the former, do you think they're interested in you back?

Try and ignore the TSR-kiddies

I've been with my lovely, amazing boyfriend, who is also my best friend, for a year and 5 months. The thing is... I'm finding myself becoming increasingly tempted sexually by two other men.

The thing is, I see my boyfriend once a fortnight on average because he's quite busy, whereas I see the two other men I'm interested in almost every day because they're my colleagues. One of the other men I'm only slightly interested in, but the other one I'm finding irresistable, to be honest... and I see him all the time! Sometimes the temptation is so strong I feel like I'm gonna explode!

I'd love to try him out for one night and then return to my lovely boyfriend, who I do love very much, but I know relationships don't work like that.

The thing is, I'm not even sure it's gonna work long-term with my boyfriend. I'm 20 and he's an older guy with a daughter and his own busy life and honestly, I can't see all this reconciling for the better. But parting from my boyfriend would mean losing the best friend I ever had. What do I do?